Breaking up is actually very practical, almost a necessary journey in the long journey of love. From intimacy to forgetting each other in the world, the word 'breaking up' always hurts some people's hearts. What we can do is to try to say the breakup as tactfully as possible and minimize the harm in order not to disappoint our failed relationship. However, in such a big world, everyone is influenced by education, culture, and environment, and their temper and temperament are different. We need to learn to use different methods to face people with different temperaments and temperaments. Today, we will explore how to break up with people with irritable personalities?
We need to be resolute. A person with a hot temper usually uses your cowardice to subdue you when you break up with him. In his bones, he feels that using harsh language is more effective than using romantic language. Since that's the case, even if you break up with him in any way, don't expect a peaceful breakup. Only by telling him firmly, "We can only go this far," this is the most direct and possibly the most effective approach. Since he has a hot temper, you need to have a firm willpower and not let your cowardice become a weapon for others to defeat you. Only by letting him know that his deadly moves have no effect on you can he truly bring him down. Perhaps this approach will inevitably lead to a storm, but long pain is better than short pain. Leaving decisively and defeating him with a strong heart can help you completely break free from his claws. Remember that even if you owe each other in love, don't be disconnected.
Timing is very important. People who are irritable generally lack patience and are irritable, irritable, and lack self-control. They all see themselves as beasts living in the jungle, with crises everywhere and no sense of security. Centered on oneself, there is no tolerance for others, and flaws must be reported and evaluated. So if you want to break up with someone like this, timing is particularly important. You can try asking him out for a meal or watching a movie he likes together... Try to break up when he has a calm mindset, keep him clear headed, think creatively, and truly think, in order to achieve the best results. Remember not to forcefully confront him. After all, they are the ones they have loved before. Since we cannot go to the end together, we should try not to make a fuss and not interact with each other.
Persuade people with reason. Since the hard one cannot compete, let's try the soft one. Choose a good time to have a heart to heart conversation with him, tell him how bad his temper is, tell him that you can't stand him, and analyze the reasons why you have come this far. As long as the other party understands that you are not the right person for each other, and two people who love each other do not necessarily have to be together, as long as the other party has a happy life. As long as he still has a trace of affection for you, I believe he will also understand your difficulties. The advantage of doing this is that you can use this relationship to influence him, so that he can reform himself in the future and not repeat the same mistakes in the next relationship.
Living in this world, we will be attacked by others. If we want to fall in love, we will inevitably be hurt by our emotions. In the end, what can sustain us is nothing but two things: either we are strong in our hearts or we turn a blind eye. To solve various problems in love, in the final analysis, it is still the saying: "It is better to have a soft heart than to have a hard heart, to have a hard heart than to have a hard heart, and to have a heartless heart than to have a heartless heart.