Post Date December, 03 2023
Nowadays, many men and women fall in love many times before entering the palace of marriage. So how to tell your partner about your previous romance is a technical task. Many men and women will be very concerned about each other's past relationships. How to tell them about your past romance?
Husband and wife should trust each other
Nowadays, men and women often do not succeed in their first love. Most of them have been in love several times, so should they be honest with their spouses about their past love and sexual experiences with others? Couples should trust each other and be loyal to each other. Therefore, in principle, their past sexual experiences should not be concealed, and this kind of frank disclosure should be made before marriage rather than after marriage. Doing so, on the one hand, demonstrates one's trust and loyalty to the other party, and on the other hand, tests one's understanding and trust in the other party.
Case analysis
However, some specific details of past events may not be discussed, as these details do not affect the essence of the matter and have little positive impact on the development of both parties' emotions. There is a young couple who got married through love and had a very good relationship. The woman had a boyfriend in the past, and the two had a passionate relationship before, but later broke up due to various reasons. My current husband also knows about this matter. One night, while the couple was sitting on the sofa watching TV and getting intimate, the husband suddenly asked, "Did that friend of yours get so intimate with you in the past?" At this point, my wife found it difficult to answer. If that man in the past also kissed, hugged, and stroked her like this, what benefits would it have for consolidating and developing the current marital relationship? So the wife avoided answering this question directly and just kissed her husband and said, "I have never loved anyone like I love you
The wife's approach was right and clever, while the husband's asking such questions seemed inappropriate. To be honest, love is not unconditional, but it must be subordinate to the goal of promoting the consolidation and development of the marital relationship. It can be seen that telling your spouse about your sexual experience is correct, but it is important to be cautious and not let past events affect your relationship. In this regard, both husband and wife should maintain a certain level of confidence, as they are all past events.
