How should elderly people view sexual issues correctly? How to have sexual pleasure in later life

After entering old age, there are significant changes in physiological functions. Sexual ability is also affected to some extent, causing many elderly people to become confused and hesitant about their sexual life.

The survey found that the sexual function of the elderly is not only related to age, physical illness, and medication use, but also to a positive attitude towards sex. Women also have some worries about sexual activity due to dry vagina, Dyspareunia, etc. Moreover, it is more influenced by the spouse's attitude towards sex and their requirements for sex.

In addition, changes in roles within the family have a significant impact on women's sexual psychology. As their children grow up, they gradually assume the roles of mothers and grandparents. He hopes to show his holiness in front of his children and grandchildren, which may lead to Sexual repression.

The change of Role caused by retirement and the suffering from various chronic diseases or geriatrics will make the elderly have a strong decline mentality. Children gradually become independent and leave home, which can also cause a strong sense of loss and loneliness in the elderly. These situations will lead to a spontaneous decline in the interest of elderly people in sexual activity. When they are dissatisfied with sexual activity once or twice, they are more likely to form a mental burden, thereby reducing sexual activity. Some elderly people also believe that people should maintain the true yang of the human body. We should have a clear mind and few desires, eliminate evil thoughts, and minimize sexual activity as much as possible.

Therefore, they will actively suppress their sexual desires. Or endure ejaculation to achieve the goal of abstinence and nourishing the "spirit". Single elderly people often miss their spouses and have negative psychological experiences, with more sexual memories than elderly couples of the same age. And often through sexual scenes such as television and movies, to satisfy spiritual sexual experiences. Due to sexual demands that cannot be understood by children and society, it can make them feel annoyed and oppressed. The temperament becomes peculiar, sometimes losing temper without reason, and the majority of single elderly people commit sexual crimes.

1. Enjoying "Sexual" Happiness: The Legitimate Rights of the Elderly

The sexual demands of the elderly are not ugly or bad things, but normal physiological and psychological needs. For the elderly, sexual life cannot be ignored, sexual desire should not be cut off, and it is not only the elderly themselves who need to dispel their concerns. We also call on society and families to treat the sexual needs of the elderly correctly, and pay attention to the social interaction and remarriage requirements of single elderly people.

2. Avoid unnecessary anxiety

Elderly people should adopt a positive and joyful attitude. A calm mood and correct attitude towards the fact of decreased sexual ability. As one gets older, it is impossible to have an erection as easily as young people, and the degree of erection also decreases. Ejaculation is relatively slow, and the ability to ejaculate is also poor. This is a normal physiological change, and there is no need to add psychological burden to oneself. Compared to when young, it is unrealistic and can only increase sadness.

In summary, elderly people need to get rid of the negative psychological effects of decay, shame, fear, and abstinence. Make your sexual life harmonious and enjoyable, and fully enjoy the "sexual" blessings of your later years.