Post Date December, 03 2023
Lovers go from sweetness to insipidity to separation. Have you ever thought about why you lost each other's feelings? I hope the following content can give you a hint to grasp the next emotion. How do men lose their girlfriends?
When pursuing others as treasures, always maintain the best side
When I first got my hand, I hurt someone to the bone. I called her a dozen times a day and sent her dozens of messages. You always remember what she said, and you will do your best to satisfy whatever you want to eat, buy, and go. I am gentle and considerate, and I hope to stay with her for 24 hours; At the beginning, she is always inclusive, even if her life habits are different from yours, she will work hard to debug and cooperate, everything is beautiful
Long time, tired of it! Don't talk about dozens of phone calls every day, even one phone call is too lazy to make. When making a phone call, you only talk about the specific situation, which saves all those "fun" words that don't matter; Not to mention information. Half of the 10 messages she sends back to you make you think you've already responded enough. Even if she calls you, you think she's verbose!
"You won't get up early because she wants to eat breakfast anymore, you won't queue up for her to buy what she wants, you won't take a special leave to take her to the place she wants to go, you'll feel like she's relying on you for everything, making you think she's having a lot of trouble!"!
Then you will find that her shortcomings are increasing, and her advantages will soon be covered up by her shortcomings. You can't bear it anymore!
Finally, tired! With a simple sentence of "Break up!", I ended my complex feelings with a natural and unrestrained expression; Or wait until one day she can't stand the sudden heat and cold or the uncertain attitude of choosing to leave. You can also say that she left you alone, and you didn't feel guilty
"Man, do you remember that you once said, 'I will always be so kind to you, loving you and spoiling you all my life!'"
It's not that she has too many troubles, it's because you said and did too well at the beginning that she relies on you!
Do you remember that you once said, "No matter how late you are, you can call me if you can't sleep, and my phone will be turned on for you 24 hours a day!"
"Then you don't think she's considerate. Calling during the day bothers you, and after a hard day's work, she's still bothering you to hang up after going to bed at night.". Who made her form the habit of calling you whenever and wherever she wanted to?
She's making trouble for no reason
That's because your attitude has changed from a certain period of time, and you have started to snub her; It makes her feel insecure and makes her suspicious! It's not that she doesn't trust you or give you space, but that she loves you, cares about you, and spends all her time caring about you. The subtle changes in your life involve her emotions!
She has a bad temper
That's because she has known a lot of things many times, but if you don't say it, she always chooses to be silent, always silent; After a certain amount of time, they will burst out with all the resentment in their hearts; You know, none of this is because she has a bad temper. It's because you weren't careful enough to notice that they've been piling up!
She's not as charming as she used to be
Who said at the beginning that they didn't like her daily changes like a butterfly? Who said they liked the pure appearance of her plain face? Although it is human nature to like the new and dislike the old, apart from Chairman Mao and antiques, looking at anything for a long time can lead to aesthetic fatigue; But she is not something, she is a living person with feelings!
"You don't give her answers anymore, you don't promise her anymore, you don't want to fail to make these answers and promises lie in the future."
So you gave her so many answers and promises before, and now you can pave the way for yourself. How can she forget what you promised before? Women are not afraid that their promises will not be fulfilled. They are afraid that if you promise and don't fulfill them, it will be another problem if you don't fulfill them in the end!
You're busy, you don't have the time or energy to please her. Don't you know what she's thinking now?
Aren't you busy before? Did you use to spend all your time courting her instead of working? How come you used to observe so carefully what she was thinking?
You think you don't deserve it. You don't want her to waste her feelings on this fruitless love anymore
So why did you chase her in the first place? Do experiments? She has already wasted so much emotion. When you think of emotion as a faucet, turn it on and off!
Yes, all this is an excuse you made for yourself! Don't think that changing a girlfriend can forever shake off that period of emotional gloom, because in the near future you will still have to return to this kind of time. So will your next girlfriend, so will your next girlfriend, and so will your next girlfriend. There is a kind of time when you will never fall in love or get married
Men, after reading it, think back to your wonderful time, and now that no one is secretly thinking about it, are you making excuses for yourself? Is the woman you used to love so much now not worth your love? Don't say you're blind before you're with her, because you're not blind, please don't insult the dog!
If you regret breaking up, hurry up and try to recover from it. After that, you will manage your shared feelings with your heart! Actually, what a woman wants is very simple, just wanting a man who loves herself is enough
If you want to break up, consider clearly that not every relationship can be retrieved! It's not good to think about it too long, because they can tolerate you snubbing her for a while, but they won't be foolish for a lifetime; No matter how foolish they are, they will give themselves a period of time to endure your indifference and trust your love; But when the time comes, they will leave without hesitation, and no amount of sweet talk will be of any use at that time, because no one in the world can live without leaving!
In love, cherish the foolish woman who is willing to take care of you, be considerate of you, and be willing to bear the hardships with you now! After passing this village, maybe there won't be this store anymore
When it's time to get married, get married, and stop procrastinating; Getting a marriage certificate is like buying insurance, at least you already have the bottom of your heart
Love is like cooking Congee! When boiling hot, add some ingredients to make it hot and tasty; When you forget to turn off the heat and cook it, you don't even want to smell it. You even want to throw it away
Watch your fire
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
