Post Date December, 03 2023
Education and culture are two different things. Some people are very cultured, but they are very uneducated; Some people do not have much education or knowledge, but they are still very cultured and well behaved.
A person's cultivation is not when they are calm, but when they are restless; A person's rationality is not in calm waters, but in the midst of the noise of the crowd; A person's compassion is not when they are condescending, but when people speak lightly; Respect between couples is not in idle moments, but when opinions differ; The love between husband and wife is not before the flowers and under the moon, but in times of great danger.
I like to tidy up my house, which is a state of mind. After cleaning up, I feel very comfortable. I think the biggest fashion for men is to spend more time at home. In fact, by calling all those who should go home, this society will be much more stable. How many people nowadays don't go home, not because of their careers, but because they are at the table or in the singing hall. If every household's lights turn on at night, it is also a fashion trend.
The basic standards of a good man are: not necessarily romantic, but must be responsible; You don't necessarily have to earn a lot of money, but you must support your family; You don't have to listen to your parents in everything, but you must have filial piety; You don't necessarily have to follow the three rules and four virtues, but you must spoil your wife; You don't necessarily need to achieve success, but you must have time to spend with your family; You don't have to manage children, but you must love them; It's not necessary to be male chauvinistic, but when big things happen, you must make up your mind.
This world is not your world, it doesn't mean you succeed and can do whatever you want. I think the highest state of being a person is moderation, not release. So I enjoy this kind of moderation, I think it is the greatest enjoyment in life. Release is easy, both material and spiritual release are easy, but the challenge is moderation.
Responsibility is the backbone of a man and the pillar of his steadfastness. Do what you say, carry what you take, and bear the consequences of what you do wrong. The maturity of a man depends not on his age, but on how much responsibility he can shoulder. The more excellent a man is, the greater the responsibility he bears and the wider the scope of responsibility he has. Even if you cannot be a great man, you must still be a responsible man.
