Nowadays, not only men but also women have affairs. As long as a sensitive woman encounters undesirable things in her emotional life, over time, they will erupt, causing phenomena such as extramarital affairs. To avoid wives bringing "green hats" to their husbands, it is recommended that men should do the following.
1. Have more time together
The traditional Chinese concept holds that men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside. This understanding provides an excuse for men to ignore their families. Many women run household chores as if their position was at home. However, if a woman stays at home alone for a long time without the company of a man, she will feel lonely and uninteresting. After a long time, she will want to go out from home to socialize and entertain. Under the psychological effect of being lonely, women are likely to be tempted by other men when they go out. Because of this opportunity, the chances of having an affair increase. If a woman doesn't go outside, how can she have an affair? Therefore, to prevent women from having an affair, a man should first take more care of the family and give women more comfort. He should let himself stay warm at home after leaving home. In this way, women naturally reduce the chance of having an affair.
If you don't regularly participate in your wife's activities, it's natural to have a deeper understanding of her interpersonal relationships, and you can know who you are and who you are. If the wife has no extramarital affairs, moderate participation in wife's activities can improve the relationship between the husband and wife. If the wife has an ulterior motive, it can also be detected and prevented in a timely manner.
2. Don't do anything to hurt your wife
Many women who have affairs often have their husbands being unkind to them. Of course, the most likely thing is that their husbands have done something that deeply hurts their wives. Such as husband beating and scolding his wife, cheating on his wife, or husband having a lover outside. Or the husband is extremely indifferent to his wife, and even if his wife is pregnant, he doesn't ask or hear about it.
After these injuries, the wife will not attach great importance to the marriage relationship and will not actively refuse the temptation of the outside world. On the contrary, when meeting a man who treats him well from outside, he may or may not be able to choose the best and treat him without hesitation.
3. Pay attention to any changes in the wife's lifestyle
Once a woman has an affair and has extramarital feelings, it will naturally not be calm. If a man cannot be discovered for a long time, it can only be said that a man is too stupid. "If a woman is outside and occasionally plays extramarital sex with others, and most of it is improvised, it will not affect the normal lives of both parties.".
But once a woman has feelings outside of marriage, there will definitely be significant changes in the rules of life. For example, phone calls, text messages, rules of going out, and mood changes. Therefore, when a woman has an extramarital affair, she should initially strive not to change this rule, but as time goes on and the relationship deepens, it becomes difficult to maintain this calm. When women often make excuses to justify their actions, as men, they need to pay more attention.