Post Date December, 03 2023
Wu Jiani, who has starred in films such as "Men and Women," "101 Proposals," and "Young Yang Family Generals," met Ma Jingtao, who was 21 years older than her in 2007. After marriage, she had two sons. Recently, its micro blog has attracted a large number of fans. Uncle Ma Jingtao's roaring voice is a memory of an era. The editor grew up watching Uncle Ma's play, and his love affair with his current wife, both young and old, has also become the focus. There are also many examples of this type of love between young and old in the entertainment industry. However, such marriages often end up breaking up, so how can we maintain a marriage of love between young and old?
Clear planning is most important. Coordinate early on various aspects of the different behavior patterns of both parties. Before choosing a marriage, both men and women must consider it carefully. In particular, there is a deep age gap between the other half of the marriage and themselves. When the version of marriage is "old man and young wife," women should consider why they choose the older one. At the beginning of your marriage, you may love him for his composure, steadfastness, and successful career, but this also means that you have also chosen the "side effect" of the other person's aging: composure may develop into a lack of vitality, steadfastness may become conservative, and even successful career may become "not striving for progress.". Looking at the problem from a different perspective, your dissatisfaction with him will ease.
At the same time, an older husband enters the aging stage earlier, which means that the wife needs to spend more time and energy taking care of him, which often goes against the original intention of choosing a young wife. The original mentality of a wife was to hope for more attention from her husband, although this kind of attention came mostly from the spirit, not purely physical. At this time, when the psychological needs of both parties change, whether to readjust and adapt is the key to the preservation and continuation of marriage. Experts believe that, in general, men's average life expectancy is inherently shorter than that of women. If a husband is much older than his wife, it is likely that the husband will eventually die and the wife will be left alone.
Mutual support is the key. For couples with a large age gap, spiritual love is more important than ordinary couples, and both parties need love and care from each other to keep the marriage going. Because marriage brings not only mutual rights, but also responsibilities to each other. At the same time, both parties should also have a psychological preparation for possible future divorces, be prepared to calmly face conflicts and frankly accept the breakup.
