Post Date December, 03 2023
You need to be strong enough to control the scene in a casual way. When you approach, you must appear not to be trying to approach. You must show kindness to a group, not please it.
The art of picking up girls is full of these puzzles, but fortunately there are solutions.
Using traps and pauses to reshape routines is one solution. Let MM chase you by asking you questions.
Make her want something. This is the beginning of her exploration of your mystery. Encourage her to do so with sweet words that include snares and pauses.
A trap is a statement that brings one or more problems. A pause is a brief pause that allows her to expand her imagination.
For example:
You: "I have an intuition about you."
She: "What intuition?"
You: "Sometimes I have hunches, and my friends are surprised. Many of them have come true. I don't know if I have psychic abilities, but I do see some signs in you."
She said, "What is that? What do you see?"
You: "I see the adventurous spirit that is often trapped by social expectations. (pause) I once knew a girl, an artist, and she had a similar feeling. She later used a beautiful and stimulating way to free herself from the shackles of our relationship."
She: "What did she do?"
It's easy to get here. Take a look at your routines and put these concepts into them with a little more thought. Try to attract a MM without asking her any questions. Get the feeling of being chased from her.
Of course, you also need to pass on some useful materials. She discovered the treasure through her exploration, which would inspire her to continue her exploration. Maximize the fun of conventions.
The problem is opportunity. Plan for her to follow the topic you expect. But it's also important to plan ahead and always be prepared to answer their common questions with some great answers. If you have some cool tricks, let her beg you to show her.
There are many smart guys who often make the mistake of saying things that are too perfect, thorough, attractive to girls, and have a very good ending. But doing so is just causing trouble for yourself. Don't be too perfect. Leave some space or say something contradictory. Give her a chance to use her imagination to fill in those details, and let her curiosity guide her to ask you questions. Your time should be spent searching for the magic of life, rather than solving the trivial issues of chasing girls.
Don't draw conclusions. Never hand over the "microphone" after making a closing argument. If you find yourself drawing conclusions, cultivate a trapped thread of conversation before handing over the microphone.
If MM does not have a middle set, it does not mean that it is a useless trap. Even if a trap has no effect, it can contribute half an interesting effect. Just don't make yourself look like you're expecting something. Stand on your own and be strong without desire. Keep your language flowing.
