Post Date December, 02 2023
As the saying goes, "As long as the hoe is well wielded, there is no corner that cannot be dug down.". In reality, the phenomenon of digging walls is widely used in various fields: commercial warfare, manpower, trading, and so on. In the field of love, it is no exception. It is often heard that people will talk about what conditions are suitable for digging corners, how to dig corners without shouldering the pressure of public opinion, and whether digging corners is good or not. In fact, one standard can be used to measure whether a woman is happy or not at the moment. In the face of unhappy women, how is it best for boys to dig the wall?
Under what circumstances is it suitable to dig the wall toe
Suitable for digging wall footings
Her boyfriend treated her badly. Some people will say that if a man is not kind to his girlfriend, the girl should leave him, be decisive, stay in trouble, and take timely measures, which will lead to even more suffering in the future. In fact, from an outsider's perspective, it's definitely right to do this, but sometimes it's not easy for parties, especially girls, to make up their minds and make up their minds. According to a survey, nearly half of women cannot forget a man who has harmed them for two reasons: Firstly, women are a group that is more emotional than rational, and are more likely to be attracted to new and exciting things; Secondly, compared to men, women are more likely to become dependent in romantic relationships. When encountering such a woman, you can show your patience, carefulness, and tenderness to contact her without worrying about the public opinion around you. Because when a person is unhappy, no one will stop and be with someone who can make them happy.
Her boyfriend flirts with women. There are always restless people who are clearly with their current job, but who are always confused with their predecessors and even other women. "They are natural actors, and when faced with their girlfriends, they can disguise their past with the illusion of being obedient, and deceive them with good words.". However, there is no airtight wall in the world, and there will always be a day when the matter of stepping on two boats will be exposed. "When I learned that his boyfriend is flirting around, maybe this woman is still in the dark, but I can slowly get in touch with her. When the time is ripe, I can detect her boyfriend's misbehavior and successfully embrace her.".
Her boyfriend broke his promise. There are many men who have been dating their girlfriends for a long time, some for one, three, or even seven to eight years. However, marriage has not been mentioned yet, or he evades when the woman mentions it. At this moment, I have to think that her boyfriend may be afraid of not having freedom after marriage; It is also possible that they themselves do not want to get married and are accustomed to this mode of communication, but do not want to lose such a partner; At the same time, it is not ruled out that some people simply have marital phobia. It is well known that a girl's youth is often between the ages of 20 and 30, and after this period it is not easy to marry: those who are younger and less mature than themselves, and those who are older than themselves are basically married. Often, a girl is caught in a dilemma, which can give her happiness. But it's important to remember that if you don't want to marry her, don't enter her field of vision. Be responsible for her and not cause secondary psychological harm.
The above situations are basically common, and of course there are many other situations that are suitable for digging wall footings. "But the only purpose is to take action when she is unhappy and you can give her happiness.".
Tips for contacting her
No one does not yearn for happiness. When knowing that she is not happy, taking action at this time often has a high success rate. When a better person appears, it triggers the balance in her heart. Faced with this situation, you need skills to slowly create weights and tilt the balance to your own side.
Be an ordinary friend for a while first. Slow work produces delicate work, moistening things silently. If the intention is too obvious and the girl avoids the attack in time, it may still be empty-handed in the end. At this time, it is necessary to gradually establish influence, and first become an ordinary friend for a period of time. Just like other friends of the opposite sex, it is necessary to greet them, greet them, and chat about what they should meet. Let her feel that all the occasions and atmosphere she is with her are no different from ordinary friends. In this way, she will let go of her vigilance, get permission from her, and slowly enter her inner circle. Then leave each other's contact information and take the first step towards success.
Maintain frequent contact through various channels. This degree of frequency is not intended to create connections, but rather to introduce some topics. After obtaining the contact information of the other party and learning about her interests through previous understanding, you can post some related topics in social software. For example, she often sends out some delicious food, at which time she can like it or make some comments; If she likes photography and often sends out beautiful pictures, in addition to the necessary praise (at this time, it is necessary to understand the skills of praising girls), she can also humbly ask for two tips; You can also post some interesting content yourself to attract the other person and let her know that you are a person who does not lack humor and has a certain vision. Methods such as this, and so on. Psychological research shows that one of the conditions for men and women to form romantic relationships together is to have similar hobbies. It can be seen that the more points of contact between two people, the better.
Timely can reveal some of their own embarrassing things. I believe some people will believe that embarrassing things cannot be casually said, and the good image originally established may only be destroyed. The embarrassments I refer to here are not things that I can't really say, but rather revealing something I have done that has a bit of a "second" aspect. In psychology, there is a concept called "self exposure", which actually refers to expressing oneself frankly and truthfully and promoting oneself. This is an important indicator of the intimacy of two people's relationships. Now, if you experience it quietly, you will find that in the process of getting along with friends, the higher the degree of self exposure, the closer the relationship will be, and the more jokes will be; On the contrary, the lower the level of self exposure, the more distant the relationship will be, and there will be a lot of consideration in the process of communication. Therefore, proper self disclosure can shorten the distance between two people, and revealing some embarrassing things can also make the woman feel that she is a very interesting person, and the other party will gradually enjoy being with you.
Men and women together, although each couple's experiences are different, all love actually seeks the same feeling. When faced with a girl who is not happy at this moment, there are frustrations and tears, then it is incumbent upon you to give her happiness. If the other party and boyfriend are already very happy at the moment, please stop thinking. After all, doing so will destroy her existing happiness, bring her into a treacherous swamp, and public opinion will not have any positive evaluation on her side. Digging the foot of a wall is not always possible anywhere, and it is also necessary to look at the reality. Although the hoe is wielded well, do not dig indiscriminately!
