Post Date December, 03 2023
For men and women on their first date, they often don't know how to start the conversation. A good way of chatting is the key to determining the success of a first date. So, how can we start the game to better attract her and leave a good impression on her?
1. Talking about siblings
What should we talk about for the first time? Let's talk about her parents, it's a bit inappropriate. If her parents separate or divorce, it will cause her unhappiness. The usual topic is to talk about siblings. Talking about siblings can deepen our understanding and liven up the atmosphere. And if you want to understand her family, it means you like her, which can easily win her trust.
2. Talking about childhood ideals
Let's talk about our childhood ideals. This is a very interesting topic, which is both relaxed and enjoyable, and can enhance relationships. However, don't rush to the beginning, let her speak. The happier she speaks, the more dramatic you will be.
3. Talking about Scenic Spots and Historic Sites
What historical sites have you been to before? She is happy to answer this question and won't be too cautious. In order to make her speak up, please ask her to introduce you again. As long as you are a loyal listener, she will quickly develop a good impression of you. At this point, you can take the initiative and ask her where else she wants to go. If she says she has always wanted to go somewhere, your opportunity to show off will come.
Bravely say, "I've always wanted to go there, too. Let's go together someday and realize our dreams together?" She will happily accept your invitation. In fact, after discussing these things, you have also gained a lot of knowledge and interests about her.
4. Tell me about your favorite cuisine
If you are dating in a restaurant or bar, talk about your favorite delicacies. This is a pleasant topic. When discussing food, you can not only understand her taste and find common ground, but also no longer worry about having no topic.
If she has a unique skill, first praise her without losing the opportunity, and then ask her, "I've heard my mouth water, let me have a good day." Even if she knows you're flattering her, she's still very helpful. If you also have a hand, don't forget to invite her to taste your craft.
5. Exploring Hobbies
Like collecting stamps, singing, or dancing? Do you like sports? What music do you like to listen to? These questions cannot be ignored, otherwise how do you know her interests and hobbies. And she also wants to show off herself, doing more with one move, why not do it.
6. About future plans
Can you talk about your life in college? Do you still want to continue studying? She may be very interested in these topics, talking extensively about her student life, interesting things, and various honors she has achieved. However, she may also react coldly, simply stating that her current job major is not appropriate, and then shifting the topic. However, regardless of the situation, we will give you a good opportunity to compliment her.
7. My own work situation
If you have been working for a while after graduating from college, discussing work is a good topic. However, you need to take control of the initiative and not let her constantly nag about trivial things in life. The more she talks, the more unhappy she becomes, and the more you listen, the more impatient you become.
However, when most people talk about work, even if it is dull and tasteless, they will still talk extravagantly. It's okay, at least you can tell if she will be a workaholic or a good housewife in the future.
8. Friends around me
Talk to her about her friends. Perhaps you don't know them, but it doesn't matter. She will be happy to talk about her friends, the details of their relationship, the time and place of meeting. Maybe you're not interested at all, but don't get impatient. This is a great opportunity for you to get to know her. Do you want to continue developing with her? Let's start by getting to know her friends.
9. Don't mention her old love
On a first date, don't ask about her old love. If she doesn't bring up such a topic, you can't speak up rashly. She may still love him, or she may still be in the pain of her previous love. When meeting for the first time, don't think that talking about her past lover, enlightening her, comforting her, and winning favor can often backfire.
If you want to please her, don't let her reminisce about the past and talk about happy things. Remember, your goal is to win her, not to wipe her tears.
