Men's temperament, manners, and magnanimity are all subtly influencing women. Many men always envy other people's wives for their beautiful appearance, and despise their own wives for being vulgar. Before getting married, which woman was not a delicate narcissus, but marrying a good man can nourish them, while marrying a bad man gradually withers away.
01 Men's abilities nourish their wives' appearance
No one has an obligation to see your beautiful soul through your messy appearance, but which woman is born with a messy face? Some men dislike their wives' yellow faced women and feel embarrassed when brought out. In fact, what they should be ashamed of is their abilities. I earn less, women are frugal, and I dare not buy expensive cosmetics; How can a woman like this look beautiful when she can't afford to work by the hour and works as a nanny day and night, taking care of a large family, and having no money or time for maintenance?
Men have the ability, and women's beauty salons can recharge and renew hair salons year-round. A bottle of eye cream can easily reach thousands, and large brand whitening products can be used for a long time. They also have a lot of time to sit in front of the dressing table and tidy themselves up. How can such women not be young and beautiful?
Beautiful women are very expensive, and beauty and fitness cards burn money. There must be a man behind them who makes her worry free; And a woman with a dull complexion and a haggard face often leads a very cheap life, and there must be a man behind them who is incompetent and incompetent.
02 Men's upbringing and nurturing women's personalities
Which girl was not elegant and innocent before getting married? After marriage, some women are gentle and considerate, virtuous and decent, while others are emotionally unstable and unhappy, all of which depend on the man's upbringing.
If a man respects women, cares for his wife, actively shares household chores, takes care of the elderly and children, the wife will inevitably have a gentle personality and a peach blossom on her face; Some men have a hot temper and can easily speak loudly. They also shake hands with the shopkeeper at home and have women worry about everything. Their wives are inevitably full of complaints and a worried face; Some men are broad-minded and tolerant towards women, while their wives are inevitably open-minded and sensible, and coquettish;
Some men are small bellied. They criticize women's dress, buy clothes and apply nail polish. His wife must swallow her pride and look sad. Men's temperament, manners, and magnanimity are all subtly influencing women. Women who are not gentle and beautiful enough are mostly due to the lack of upbringing of married men.
03 Men's Taste Cultivates Women's Temperament
If a man dresses flashy or unkempt, his woman will also dress up as a demon, making people surprised; And for a man in a suit and shoes, who is simple and fashionable, his wife often dresses well and has an elegant temperament.
If a man is addicted to smoking, drinking, playing cards, and gambling, his woman often gossip and is fond of gossip. If a man enjoys traveling, reading, and exercising, then his woman must also enjoy drinking tea, planting flowers, and being fresh and refined.
There is a man she loves hidden in a woman's temperament. A man with low taste will surely cultivate a vulgar and unbearable woman, while a man with noble taste will cultivate a dignified and elegant woman.
04 Find a man who can 'support' you and get married
If a woman marries an incompetent man, constantly depletes herself, becomes increasingly haggard, and ultimately is despised by him as a yellow faced woman; If you marry an uneducated man, you will become shallow, selfish, and lifeless;
If you marry a man without taste, you will become increasingly vulgar and superficial; If you marry a man who can "support" you, it is not only material abundance, but also spiritual nourishment and enrichment.
Behind every successful man, there is a great woman, and behind every beautiful woman, there is also a man who can "raise" her.