Post Date December, 02 2023
Jobs once said that "marriage is the final sublimation of feelings". A good marriage is a haven and gas station in your life, a warm embrace in the cold, and a solid shoulder in the sad. However, good things in the world are not easy to get. Marriage depends on the efforts of two people to manage and maintain. When the marriage cracks, how can we repair it?
Find the reason for divorce. If you want to save your marriage, you have to find out the reason why your marriage broke down. If you only have a headache, but you say it is a sore throat when you see a doctor, then the medicine given by the doctor will only cure your throat, and your head will still ache. The same is true of marriage. If you can't find the right reason to save it, the result will be unsatisfactory. This requires you to find out the reason why your wife wants to divorce. Generally speaking, your quarrel is actually just the fuse of the outbreak of war. The real reason for the war may be more profound. Think carefully about when your wife has changed a little about you, and whether you have done anything that makes her dissatisfied at that time.
Explain the misunderstanding with your wife. One thing, you can't really blame her if you don't say she doesn't understand you, because she is not a worm in your stomach. You can't expect her to understand all your actions. If you find the reason why she wants to leave, you might as well find a way to communicate with her and explain this misunderstanding. A wife who is angry and wants to divorce will certainly not give you face, or even hide from you. How do you explain that? You might as well use a little cleverness to put a big poster on the place where she must pass, and write down the reason of the matter and your confession on it. After reading it, she must have lost more than half of her anger.
Use children to intercede. If you have children, you have more easily retained chips. Mothers and children have deep feelings. Women are emotional. Motherhood will tend to flood their motherly love, and your children will go to beg her not to leave wrongfully. But in the process of communicating with children, pay attention to the use of words, do not let the child be intimidated, let alone say the wife's bad and your marriage's discord in front of the child, and skillfully use a trick to make the child say that his mother does not leave. In the face of children, the wife will certainly be soft hearted. Next, you should step up and strengthen her heart.
Save your wife with action. If you don't practice fake tricks, you may have tried to explain the misunderstanding clearly, but if you go your own way naturally, your wife will not feel safe, and can't believe that you are really the next. So you should take action to prove that your mistake is over, and then you will never make this mistake again. Let your wife believe that you can give her the marriage she wants in the future. Learn to manage marriage well and take good care of your wife when dating, which can help improve marriage. Maybe it's just a small detail, or if you take the initiative to clean up, or if you wash clothes yourself, it may make your wife find your changes and feel your heart.
Tell her about the drawbacks of divorce. After divorce, your child will become a single-parent family, which will cast a shadow on the child. It is impossible for all parents not to consider for their children. How can she live alone after her divorce? Without financial resources, I will be very tired in the future. It is difficult to find another husband at an old age. Let your wife understand the disadvantages of divorce. A wise woman will not refuse your recovery.
Women care about their feelings very much, and they will not give up easily. Once they want to divorce, the seriousness of the matter must be very deep. This is not urgent. Slowly stabilize her step by step, and your efforts will not be in vain.
