Post Date November, 16 2024
How can we get a woman's heart? This is the biggest trouble many men encounter when pursuing female friends. So, how can we get a woman's heart? The small edge below will introduce it to you.
1、 How to Get a Woman's Heart
1. Take it to heart
If you fall in love with a girl or are interested in her, in many cases, you will definitely spend a lot of time considering whether this interest is based on both parties, what gestures, what words may mean, and whether you have also noticed her good impression of you. Your biggest fear is that she may find you unattractive. You ask yourself how to appear and how to take action to avoid giving rejection opportunities. What can you do to exclude others around her - at least it's important to you.
2. Approaching her
Think about how to approach her, as long as you don't appear frivolous.
Nowadays, most girls also expect boys to take the initiative. This is understandable. In addition, this is more convenient: who is asked, after all, you can say yes or no, and you can also make fun of the other person who dares to ask. Being rejected is not a good thing for anyone, it will greatly damage self-esteem. Boys often bear immense pressure, while girls often do not know this. Furthermore, this preference for passivity and passivity in waiting is not actually a trend, as women and girls now want to be tested equally in all areas of life.
However, most of us seem unable to get rid of the old concept of roles. I don't know what happened, girls should always show some weakness, while boys should show strength and recklessness. Both genders have rejected a portion of themselves. Although children no longer consciously receive this kind of education as they used to, many old biases still work unconsciously - although we all know that girls can be strong and intelligent, boys can still be gentle and sensitive. Therefore, the boys are still worried about whether I should say it or how I can tolerate rejection. The girl still insists on not giving him a clear expression.
3. Put on airs
Of course, today there are also many girls who are very casual and can actively and lively approach others. However, you cannot rely on it, perhaps it will take up too much of your time. You should not hesitate for a long time, but should express your interest to her - if the situation allows. In this situation and subsequent situations, the most important thing is not to pretend that you are not someone, as it is difficult to persist based on experience. Imitating others will not yield anything, it can only serve as an affectation. Playing with some small tricks is certainly allowed: pretending to be reserved to a certain extent, making the coincidence look natural, and trying to stay by her side to arouse her curiosity. You will show your interest in her: smile or look at her with a smile, face her eyes, say some happy or kind words, if you want to (don't panic!) talk to her, listen carefully to her, find out what she is interested in, and directly invite her to do something, as carefree and kind as possible. Anyway, you should let her know that you want to meet her, because she may not be able to see your thoughts.
