Post Date December, 02 2023
How can he feel happy in his married life?
Good daughter-in-law "and" good woman "are actually very vague terms, and how each man defines this" good "in their hearts does have their own standards and controversies. Perhaps only the general public agrees that" what is suitable is the best ".
At the age of 30, "standing at thirty" means that a person should be able to start a family and start a career, make a difference, and face all difficulties calmly.
The popular saying of the 'Seven Year Itch' is a turning point in a relationship, where after getting married for a long time, the novelty is lost. As a result, exhaustion or boredom has pushed marriage into a "bottleneck", and if effective methods cannot be chosen, the marriage may come to an end.
May I ask: What do men in their thirties think about marriage and happiness?
In my opinion, marrying a good wife is the greatest blessing in a man's life.
The terms' good wife 'and' good woman 'are actually very vague terms. How does every man define this' good' in their hearts? There are indeed different standards and controversies, and perhaps only the general public agrees that 'what is suitable is the best'.
1、 I didn't really know why I wanted to marry my wife back then.
All along, I thought I wasn't a fool, but I couldn't figure out why I married my wife back then. Frankly speaking, I have really liked many girls when I was in love. The so-called love and being loved both exist, and I seem to have worked hard like everyone else, excited, depressed, and crying. Unfortunately, it seems that it is impossible to have a perfect ending with first love. Obviously, the difference between marriage and love is a 'conditional relationship'? Perhaps it doesn't matter at all. Anyway, the person who gets married may not necessarily be the one they love; Lovers cannot live together for a long time. As a result, many people become confused and marry their daughter-in-law during the process of dating n times, but are not sure why they get married? Is it to complete tasks for parents? Or do you follow the trend and blindly follow the crowd?
2、 I don't know how to live after getting married.
A good day should be said to be honed by the couple. No woman is born with the ability to "manage a family". Of course, when it comes to being a daughter, a well educated daughter-in-law will progress faster, while a lazy woman will never be a "loser". The phrase 'living in poverty' and 'living in poverty' are largely related to women's financial habits. For example, if you have a daughter-in-law, you can make a difference. If you have noodles at home, you can have them every day, and if you have rice, don't you really eat them together? How can a man not suffer! Suggest that when some women complain about men's "less money", they also need to consider whether they "spend more". On the issue of "Jieyuan" and "Kailiu", it can only be advocated that without the ability to "Kailiu", one should learn "Jieyuan" and avoid "muddling along" in daily life. A good day is not like 'having wine today, getting drunk today, having no money to drink cold water tomorrow'.
3、 Women are easily spoiled.
Almost all women are lurking with a type of inertia 'dependence', and men naturally have a pair of shoulders. Many times, without the favor of men, women often habitually spoil themselves, worrying that some women will be spoiled. Relying on the sky and the earth is not as important as relying on oneself. It is actually crucial for women to be self-sufficient.
4、 Every man is selfish.
Eating the bowl while thinking about the pot is a common problem among all men, but compared to women who have married, there is some self-restraint in this regard. When it comes to infidelity, regardless of the factors, it is irresponsible towards marriage. Every man is selfish and thinks of ways to make a big deal out of it, but he doesn't allow his wife to steal a sip of soup at home. In fact, many women are quite disciplined.
In short, marrying a good wife is a man's lifelong blessing.
