Post Date December, 02 2023
Recently, Xiao Bian talked about the technique of flirting with his friends when they had dinner. He said that it was popular now: "Sister, I will be tough when I see you" This is not a naked X fantasy! But most boys have this similar idea. Is that right?
When people reach puberty, they will be highly sensitive to sex due to changes in hormones in the body. If you see a book or TV about sex, you will have an inexplicable impulse and excitement, and male DD will even stand up involuntarily.
In addition, when you see a beautiful opposite sex, you will also have some uncontrollable images in your mind. Therefore, some people will be annoyed, whether they have become bad or have disease problems. For this reason, they are worried and anxious all day.
In fact, sexual fantasy is the source of human imagination and can experience wonderful and thrilling plots, but there is no danger in this process. Although many people's sexual fantasies involve forced sexual behaviors, such as rape; Some people fantasize that the object is not their spouse.
But you don't need to worry about it. Research has found that most men and women have similar sexual fantasies, not abnormal psychology, and will not lead to what people will do in reality.
Sexual fantasy is mainly due to the infatuation with the opposite sex
We often admire and fantasize about some idols who don't know us at all. Every day we look at the posters of idols and weave beautiful dreams. This kind of sexual fantasy sometimes helps us.
The beauty of fantasy is that it is not limited by time and space, and is not afraid of being penetrated by others, allowing us to temporarily transcend reality; Fantasy can strengthen our self-values and make us focus on our own advantages; Fantasy can also relieve stress and tension, help us cope with emotional pressure, and timely alleviate the biggest obstacle to our satisfaction - anxiety.
You may feel guilty if the object of sexual fantasy is not a spouse. In fact, it is not necessary, because this kind of fantasy is normal and may not mean anything. When women know the results of these studies, they may be able to talk about these sexual fantasies with their husbands to increase their sexual interest. After all, nearly 100% of men have fantasized about other women.
There is no connection between sexual fantasy and real behavior. Both men and women can allow each other to have these ideas. Sharing with each other does not mean that they are ready to cheat. Therefore, it is normal for men and women to fantasize about sex. We should not pay too much attention to it, just let it go.
