Post Date December, 02 2023
In today's life, people are facing more and more temptations, with many couples lacking trust and a serious lack of "positive energy" in marriage, leading to various marital problems such as domestic violence, infidelity, and divorce. Modern marriage requires five "positive energies" to last.
Mutual tolerance and trust. If men and women first come together through love, then the long-term, stable, and harmonious marriage depends on mutual tolerance and trust. This is the foundation of marital happiness and determines the width and length of marriage. Unfortunately, nowadays, there is a general lack of integrity in society, and there is suspicion among people. Marriage and family are also inevitably disturbed.
Encourage and praise each other. After marriage, many couples quickly shed their mystery, shyness, and accommodation, rarely giving encouragement and praise to each other, and rightly taking it for granted that this is living at home. However, a truly happy marriage requires mutual respect, encouragement, and praise. If the other person handles something to your satisfaction, be sure not to be stingy in praising it, so that the other person can feel the maximum happiness, be relieved of all the efforts, and smile. Even if you don't do well, as long as you try your best, don't be stingy with your encouragement. Only in this way can the other party make progress next time.
Learn and grow together. Many people will say, "If you had known today, why should you have known it?" after marriage issues arise. The implication is that if I had known what I was like now, it would have been better not to be together. I hold an objection to this sentence. Everything is moving and changing, and the original harmony and sweetness cannot represent lifelong harmony. Only by growing and learning together can a marriage stay in tune for a long time. Of course, the best way to grow up in marriage is not to catch up with each other, but to jointly guide, motivate, and supervise influence. The term "learning" here refers not only to reading, literacy, and learning skills in a narrow sense, but also to various hobbies, knowledge, experiences, and insights.
Learn to communicate and collaborate. "You farm and I weave, I carry water and you water the garden." This song has been sung for many years, but it is such a collaborative happiness pursued by countless men and women, often beyond the reach of many people, on the pretext that there is no time. In fact, it's because we don't have this peace of mind. The key lies in whether you have such a mood and are fully aware of the benefits of such communication and collaboration. If you are aware of this, then time and energy are not a problem at all. You can help your wife tie her apron while she is cooking; You can also pour your husband a glass of hot milk while he's working overtime at his desk. Creating such positive energy does not depend on the size of the event, but only on a heart.
Cultivate "hope" together. Hope is broad, including certain financial products, even if it is a two yuan lottery ticket; It can be a short trip or a visit from a friend; It can also be to go home together for the New Year and gather with relatives; It can also be a large investment such as buying a house or car; Of course, it can be more about raising a child... In short, these hopes, whether large or small, must run through the marriage. Working together for them, both spouses will have endless fun, share joys and sorrows, and cherish each other.
