Post Date December, 03 2023
Gender Marriage: Looking at the Amazing Changes in Married Men
First year of marriage
We are sweet and affectionate, like glue. Seeing other couples fighting and arguing and throwing things, we can still survive. It's incredible, and we feel that those noisy days are far away from us.
Second year of marriage
We started arguing. During the argument, I broke a delicate and expensive clock, cried for 40 minutes, and then picked up my bag and went back to my mother's house. Thinking, divorce! I will never continue living with someone who quarrels with me. Every day after work, he would run to the workplace to pick me up, voluntarily admit my mistake, and let me go home with him.
I ignored him with a cold face and didn't go home with him. Until half a month later, he bought a large bouquet of flowers to pick me up and took the initiative to accompany me to the supermarket. I recounted his guilt for 10 minutes, and finally added a warning: "If you do this again in the future, I will never forgive you." He remained silent and agreed.
Third year of marriage
During the argument, I broke several cheap glasses, cried for 30 minutes, and then stayed at a friend's house for a few days. He called me a few times, and I went home. He cleared the broken glass debris from the ground, but I still ignored him. Hiding in the bedroom during meals without coming out. He knocked on the door outside and said, "The chicken stewed gourd is ready, come out and eat. He knocked twice on the door, and I came out to eat with him." He told me he was wrong and was willing to correct it, asking if I could forgive him. I am silent.
Fourth year of marriage
During the quarrel, I broke a pot of small chlorophytum comosum I had cultivated, cried for 20 minutes, and then walked downstairs for a day. After returning home, I saw him sitting on the sofa and watching TV as if nothing had happened. The living room was still in a mess. The broken leaves of chlorophytum comosum and the fragments of flower pots were lost everywhere. I took the initiative to clean it up. He made dinner and sat down to eat on his own. I filled a bowl of rice myself and sat across from him, arguing with him about who was right and who was wrong, but he was noncommittal.
Fifth year of marriage
During the argument, I threw a cushion off the sofa and cried for 10 minutes before rushing from the living room to the bedroom. No one cooked dinner. He stood on the balcony smoking. I took the initiative to come out of the bedroom, picked up the cushion, made a favorite dinner, and went to bed after finishing. He went to a restaurant outside for dinner, and when he came back, I took the initiative to talk to him and reason with him. He spoke fiercely and said, 'I'm not wrong!'!
Sixth year of marriage
I didn't throw anything during the argument. I only cried for five minutes and stayed in the living room for a change of posture. He stayed at a friend's house and didn't return for a few days. I called him and begged him to go home. Proactively cook a dinner he loves, serve him a meal, tell him I was wrong, be willing to correct, and ask him if he can forgive me. He remained silent.
Seventh year of marriage
I didn't cry during the argument. And I argued in the morning, but in the afternoon, I admitted my mistake and took the initiative to accompany him to watch the ball game. He counted my charges for ten minutes and finally added a warning: 'If you do this again in the future, I will never forgive you!' I remained silent and agreed.
