From the perspective of girls who have been pregnant since the age of 12, we must pay attention to the issue of adolescent sex education

Recently, media reports reported that a 14-year-old girl became pregnant and gave birth. She had miscarriages several times at the age of 12. At the beginning of this year, China Central Television reported that "there are 13 million cases of induced abortion surgery in China every year, with a repeat abortion rate of 55.9%.

The issue of early miscarriage has also been pushed to the forefront, with an average age of 28 years and the youngest being only 12 years old. On the other hand, teenagers' sexual attitudes are becoming increasingly open, and topics and stories related to sex can be easily found on the internet. On the other hand, many parents and teachers turn pale when discussing sex, do not speak, and strictly prevent children from engaging in sexual topics. A survey shows that 62% of teenagers believe most in contraception knowledge from their guardians, but only 16% of teenagers receive contraception knowledge from their guardians.

On September 16, when the World Contraceptive Day came, the public welfare lecture hall for protecting youth and breeding future adolescent reproductive health hosted by the Women in China Development Foundation was launched to provide vacuum education, suggestions and services for adolescent safe reproductive health knowledge. The Gender studies Institute of the University has just called for parents to focus on spreading correct sexual and love concepts to their children, and the core is to be responsible for themselves and others. Parents can tell their children that after two people fall in love, they will have sex when they are willing to. This is a way to express emotions.

Kindergarten children cannot do this. As they grow up, they must find talents who love each other. Love requires both parties to be responsible. When both parties do not have love, one party makes physical touches that make the other person feel disgusted, terrifying, or uncomfortable, which is called "sexual harassment". Especially when one party clearly indicates that they do not like it, doing so is still wrong. Sexual harassment not only includes physical harassment, but also includes verbal harassment. Sexual harassment is a criminal offense and is subject to serious legal action. When encountering sexual harm, it is important to know that one should not sexually harass others even when openly speaking to their parents and teachers. Fang Gang noticed that as long as there is a tolerant attitude towards children's performance and equal communication, children can be viewed with a healthy attitude.