Many women will find that their married husband starts to show off their feelings towards them, and various signs of finding a mistress are beginning to emerge. So what is the reason for the mistress to act recklessly and become the biggest killer of happiness? Now let's understand what kind of charm a mistress has to attract men.
1. The mistress will please men
Married women know that both themselves and the other party are contributing to this family, so they also take a natural attitude towards the material life provided by men. And Xiaosan knows that the man has a family and there is a possibility of her being expelled at any time, so he is afraid that the other party may be a bit unhappy, and every time he meets, he tries to have a good attitude and good temper towards the other party. This makes men feel that the woman outside of marriage is the one who follows their heart.
2. Xiao San's Smart and adaptable Mind
After all, Xiao San did not live with this man, so she paid extra attention to his every word and action, afraid that a slight lack of attention would make the other person unhappy. So they won't make trouble like their wives do, but will be willing to be the women behind men and act according to their faces.
3. A man finds the feeling of first love with his mistress
When the third person is with a man, they will not discuss the price of oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea, nor will they urge the man to pay the water and electricity bill tomorrow, nor will they distract their attention from their husband due to the birth of a child. The mistress doesn't see men every day, so every time they meet, they always showcase their best selves and don't neglect their appearance like women at home. Women outside of marriage usually let men see their sexiest and most beautiful image, or sit next to them like a little bird watching Iijima Ai together. Their world is warm and romantic, which can help men regain the feeling of love.
4. Junior satisfies a man's sense of existence
After marriage, the two people have less and less attention to each other, while the mistress can help men find their own sense of existence and give them a sense of being needed. This is something that men cannot experience in family life. Men believe that they are earning money at home, and their other status is irrelevant. The wife's attitude towards her husband will become more and more casual with the passage of time and the increase of family members, and the focus of emotions will gradually shift from the husband to the children. As a result, men will have a sense of loss and always feel that they are a neglected decimal point at home. Women outside of marriage, on the other hand, tend to treat men as everything they have because there are no children to distract their love.
Although the wife also has a certain responsibility for causing a man to cheat and find a mistress, in the final analysis, it is still because the man is not satisfied with a mundane sexual relationship, but needs more stimulation. In addition, it is found that one cannot find a former literary friend in a married wife, so the desire to find a mistress becomes even more rampant.