It seems that many women have been doing one of the things to analyze the reasons for men's cheating and extramarital love. So, what is the reason why men repeatedly prohibit cheating? Why are you so happy about extramarital love that you would rather take risks and play this balance game?
Find youth
People usually think that only women care about their age, and they are keen to cover up the traces of years through makeup, clothing, beauty, and body beauty. In fact, men also care whether they are still young, energetic and attractive, which is also a kind of competitive capital for men.
But their desire for eternal youth is much more secret than that of women. Why do most men find young and beautiful ladies as lovers? They want to prove that they are still attractive and cannot be underestimated.
Find identity
Generally, only those men with money can afford to find lovers. In the eyes of some people, lovers have become the symbol of status and status, just like villas, famous cars, and brand-name clothing. Beautiful lovers seem to be the live advertisements of men with status. An ordinary staff member of a joint venture has a low income, but since he got a lover, he found that even the manager seemed to look at him again. Men are far more socialized than women, and more affected by the environment and popular ideas than women.
Find the mood
Many men emphasize that the reason why they fall in love with their lover is that she is more gentle, beautiful and caring than their first wife. They want to find a better woman. What I look for in my lover is different from my wife's temperament, style and style. I like my partner with a bit of mystery and seduction. Because my wife has been living together for a long time, they are quite familiar with each other. There is no beauty of distance. My lover just meets their psychological needs.
Sexual satisfaction
This is the biggest "gain" of men in extramarital affairs. Most extramarital affairs have the nature of sexual transactions. Men with normal sexual life regard extramarital affairs as curiosity; Men who are not satisfied with their sexual life transfer and vent their sexual desire through extramarital affairs.
Find feelings
Some men regard their lovers as better marriage partners, but this proportion is relatively small. There are many complex emotional backgrounds behind the life-and-death extramarital affairs. Such extramarital affairs lead to a high proportion of divorce.