Post Date December, 03 2023
Five Principles of Marriage Defense War
1. Don't make your spouse feel lonely
Sexual psychologists have found that loneliness is the main reason for extramarital affairs. If couples lack cordial and friendly emotional communication, a sense of loneliness can arise spontaneously. Some scholars have found that if one spouse devotes all their energy to work. Ignoring the concern for a spouse can result in a spouse's indifference to their sexual relationship. When possible, they will seek new sexual relationships. The sexual life between husband and wife is the bond to maintain their love; It is not only physical intercourse, but also accompanied by emotional communication.
2. Don't make life monotonous
Dr. Sandford once pointed out in his book "Regulation of Sexual Life in Middle Age" that monotonous boredom is the cause of emotional change. After a few years of marriage, the enthusiasm begins to cool, and there is no longer any mysterious temptation for each other in terms of physical and mental aspects. If both spouses cannot explore and find new and more satisfactory lifestyles, some unwilling loners will seek external moments of joy.
3. Pay attention to respecting the feelings of your spouse
Too much bickering between husband and wife can lead to feelings being hurt and estrangement if the so-called "loud bickering occurs every day.". "Sorrow is no greater than death of the heart." When a party suffers from injury and reaches the point of unbearable suffering, it can cause them to lose confidence in marriage.
4. Correctly handle sexual life
Mishandling of sexual life between couples can also sow the seeds of sin in an affair. In this regard, women seem to have more responsibility. Generally speaking, men's desire for sexual life is stronger than women's, and sometimes they have to compromise in front of their wives in order to obtain opportunities for sexual life. Some women discover this secret and use sex as a means of coercion and restraint, but even as they become complacent, boredom and disgust are quietly rooted in their husbands' consciousness.
5. Full freedom to divorce
Some social psychologists believe that, based on the actual situation, the fundamental reason for the increase in extramarital affairs is also the lack of real freedom to divorce. In today's society, the concept of divorce is still very outdated. Some marriages that have already "died" are constrained by various factors and feel that the cost of divorce is too high and they are discouraged. Therefore, the full freedom of divorce is also an important factor in reducing extramarital affairs and improving marital stability.
