Every time I hear a text message prompt from my husband and mistress, it makes my heart beat

My question is very clich é d, my husband has an affair, and every day I hear his text message prompt, my heart beats. I am in my forties now, and I have a daughter who goes to high school. My husband seems normal on the surface, and we have been living for so many years. My intuition has not changed at all. I don't ask for anything now, just how can I get out of the shadows and be happy? I ask for guidance!

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Hello, normally speaking, any woman who can be happy when her husband is cheating will feel sad and sad about it. However, while feeling uncomfortable, we also need to understand that marriage is a matter for two people, not for you to be clean and responsible for life, and the other party can also be like you.

It can be said that every man has a hidden heart of infidelity, only looking at whether various conditions are mature. So, in this regard, we still need to first review ourselves, see where we are lacking, see what problems have occurred in our marriage, what is the motivation for our husband's infidelity, and the nature of the infidelity varies. Some can be forgiven, while others are firmly intolerable. When you can't change a man's infidelity by doing everything possible, then you either look down on it or let yourself stay away, it depends on which one you choose. I know that all kinds of choices are painful and difficult, but the fact is already in front of you, and you can only choose the lesser of the two powers. It depends on which option is more painful, just try to stay away from the greatest pain.

Women should love themselves well. Others can underestimate and betray us, but we must be worthy of ourselves, so that you can feel relieved from the pain.