Post Date December, 03 2023
The first major enemy of the family is the mistress, who hardly cares about external criticism and the feelings of the other party's family, only thinking about how to seek their own interests. If you don't want to see the beautiful family destroyed, you must immediately establish protective measures to resist the invasion of the mistress.
The first defense: not engaging in domestic unrest
The more natural disasters and internal strife a country has, the poorer its people will become, and so will its families. If a couple gets into a feud all day, either because of defending their own interests or because of each other's infidelity, they become angry and have a fight every now and then, which will only slowly deplete your competitiveness. The dependence of men on their families is definitely due to the fact that they cannot feel anything outside. A family is harmonious and prosperous, and the female protagonist is reasonable. Men must be reluctant to leave this family. On the contrary, the husband and wife argue and make noise all day long, and the house is in a mess. This kind of family man doesn't want to stay for a moment, so he naturally runs straight to the mistress who has been tempting him for a long time.
Second Protection: Family "Annual Inspection"
The "annual check-up" referred to here means that as a hostess, you should learn to keep your heart to your husband and have a face-to-face conversation with him to see if he has any worries in the recent period, and firmly grasp his psychology. Only a man who constantly understands himself can know what he wants, know oneself and the enemy, and win all battles, otherwise it will only allow the third party to take advantage. Only through the annual family check can the main family continuously adjust their strengths and weaknesses, constantly grasp their husband's mentality, and enable him to understand his wife's understanding. Only then can marriage go further and further.
Third protection: many common friends
You should know the truth of relying on friends outside, social connections are actually wealth. Only by having many common friends can we have more opportunities to defeat the third party. No matter where he goes, he will have your "eyeliner", so that your man will always remind himself not to mess around. Of course, your friends can never be messengers who stir up discord, but building a network can provide you with a good social atmosphere. Compared to the submissive mistress, you are of course the queen in everyone's minds, and defeating the mistress is not negotiable.
