Post Date December, 03 2023
Recently, a post on Zhihu has become popular. It tells the story of a netizen seeking help from everyone and asking, "Should my girlfriend break up with her because she spends too much money
After reading his description, I summarized that the basic situation is that a male chauvinist is exposing his own shortcomings, and by the way, he describes his stingy and selfish personality.
Then, he didn't have the ability to earn money to buy a house and start a family. On the one hand, he wanted to rely on his girlfriend's family to buy a wedding house, and on the other hand, he was extremely stingy towards his girlfriend. What was even more terrifying was that he felt that his girlfriend was making a lot of money and spending a lot of money wrong. He actually had a big argument with her on the street because she ate an ice cream, and he felt that women should serve their children at home.
Typical male chauvinism, straight male cancer, and stingy selfishness!
For that kind of strange flower, you should also have seen the answers from netizens. I won't say much more. Today, we will talk about men like him in life.
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There is a saying that goes very well, "The highest level of love for a wealthy person is to spend time with you, while the highest level of love for a poor person is to be willing to spend money for you
I have always said that we live our lives for two things, one is love and the other is wealth. It is very realistic, and if someone is willing to share their wealth with you, it can be imagined that you are of great importance in their hearts.
However, if a man is particularly stingy towards you and calculates various accounts with you in life, unwilling to spend money for you, I think he probably doesn't love you.
Actually, when it comes to this, I happen to have a story around me, which is also a young couple. I know a girl named Xiaoya, and her boyfriend was introduced by his colleague to work in sales.
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Once we ran into each other at Starbucks and happened to be writing an article. She came over to greet me and said, "You usually write a lot of articles, and I will provide you with a material that is my true story
She said, "You know, my boyfriend and I have only been together for three months, and at first we didn't pay attention to his problems. But after getting along for a long time, I found that he is really stingy.
On weekends, the two of us usually go shopping, watch movies, and have dinner. If you don't believe it, he only treated me to one meal since we met, or the night he confessed to me. Later on, it was all AA, whether it was buying movie tickets or drinking milk tea on the street
To be honest, I think there's nothing wrong with AA between men and women, but after being together for so long, it's not good for you to be calculating things everywhere.
She said that the most unbearable thing for her was a trip, "AA tickets and so on are nothing. After we arrived at the place, we went to the hotel, and I said we should have a better room and stay in a comfortable place outside.
He actually said, 'It's so expensive, unless you pay, I won't be able to stay.' At that time, I was so sad that I regretted being with him. Actually, his income is not too low either
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To be honest, after listening to her, I really can't believe it. Okay, I used to hear that some men are very stingy, but I really didn't know there were people like him who were so stingy and selfish.
A girl is going to sleep with you, why don't you still have to stay at a hotel? That's it now, will they still have to earn money to support you in the future?
Let me say, when encountering such a man, I advise the girl to break up early. I'm really worried that his extreme selfishness will affect your future.
In fact, there are many selfish and stingy men around us. I heard before that a girl borrowed money from her boyfriend, and a month later her boyfriend asked her to double it. Moreover, the living expenses of the two of them are mostly borne by the girl.
If you talk about him, he will cry poverty to you again, saying that every family has its own difficult scriptures to read.
I really agree with the old saying, 'The forest is big, there are all kinds of birds.'
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Girl, you should understand that the most important thing for a man is his heart. He may not be in a good financial situation now, but as long as he is willing to spend money for you and is willing to work hard to make you live a good life, this kind of man is worth cherishing and loving.
On the contrary, those men, whether they are poor or rich, are like an iron rooster. It's better not to provoke them, so that when the time comes, they will say you are a materialistic woman and a black sheep.
We can't afford it, but we can hide it.
Dear, you must remember that you must find a man who is willing to spend time on you and more willing to spend money on you. We are not trying to covet him, but these two conditions can help you eliminate a large number of people who do not love you.
