The man became angry and smashed the dining table upside down. The wife sat beside her crying with the child in her arms, and the child trembled in her mother's arms.
The man glared fiercely at them and said, "If it weren't for the child, I would have taken a break for you!" He then turned around and walked into the room. The woman gently touched the child's head and said, "Baby, come in and play, Mom tidy up." The child obediently ran into the room, and the woman sighed and started cleaning the messy dining room.
The relationship between this couple has already deteriorated, and the man is a standard hypocrite. When pursuing a woman, he is steadfast, loyal, and willing to give everything to the other party. After getting married, the hypocrite took off his "mask". The thoughtful, loyal, and gentle boyfriend who used to be there is gone. Being rough, indifferent, and lacking a sense of responsibility greatly disappointed his wife.
The emotional rift between the two gradually widened, and no matter what women do, men always "pick the bone in the egg", making arguments a common occurrence. In the midst of the raging war, the wife became pregnant and gave birth to a boy. Faced with their own flesh and blood, men's arrogance has decreased a lot, but women have started to "counterattack".
The ruthlessness of men makes women no longer have any nostalgia, and based on the existence of children, both of them begin to swallow their grievances. But the wife slowly began to resist. The "war" in life has ignited once again.
The man dislikes the food and the woman takes away the bowls and chopsticks directly; Men do not return home at night, while women lock their doors so that they cannot open even with a key; The man snored while sleeping, and the woman placed his blanket and pillow in another room the next day. The two of them began to sleep separately.
The behavior of women makes men furious, but every time they erupt, women hold their children and hide by the side. In this way, even if a man has a heart to kill, he has no choice but to do so. Over time, children have become a shield for women and a carrier for this bruised relationship.
A couple who exist in name only stumbled to raise their children. Nowadays, the child has grown up and achieved success in their career. The woman believed that the time had come, and she proposed a divorce to the man. The man ignored it, and they all thought the child would turn towards them, but they were greatly disappointed. My son doesn't stand on either side, and his childhood upbringing has made him lose faith in his parents. Upon receiving such an answer, the ghost fetus that the couple secretly harbored "miscarried".
Relying on children to support marriage does not yield good results
The breakdown of a relationship directly leads to the breakdown of a marriage, but some couples maintain a precarious relationship for "grand sounding" reasons. This reason is for children.
Because they have children, they live together even though water and fire are not allowed. Such reluctant behavior makes the family have no emotional color, only formalism life contact. Such couples often have a glimmer of hope for their children, hoping that they will grow up to be kind to themselves and exclude each other. They regard their children as their tools of support and want to use them to strive for the greatest benefit for themselves.
Living in such a harsh family will inevitably affect the physical and mental development of children. At a mild level, it can range from autism and isolation to personality split and depression, and most horror movies use this plot. Moreover, parents often cannot benefit from their children, and their children have a deeper hatred towards their parents than love.
Since we can't live together, it's not a good thing to separate as soon as possible. "Lotus roots are broken and connected," let alone innocent children who have become a shield. It is unwise for the resentment between two people to develop into hatred among multiple people.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)