Post Date December, 03 2023
When couples get along, it is inevitable that conflicts will arise. If they are not handled in time, they will pile up until they erupt. It is not others, but women, who lead to the escalation of conflicts. Some of their behaviors lead to their marriage becoming more unstable. In order to avoid things harmful to marriage, you'd better not do the following eight things.
First, no bottom line nonsense
The ability of women to tangle and tangle is obvious to all, but pay attention to the scale, too large will affect your marriage and your reputation. After discovering that her husband is cheating, a woman with a hot temper will be furious and will often seize a small matter to make a big noise. After every painless noise, the man will still cheat. The number of times and the time will be long. The man will also use the reason of "broken feelings" to put an unnecessary "hat" on your head for no reason. At that time, you will know that he is cheating first, However, they could not win the sympathy of the people around them, and also fell into the bad name of "bitch".
Second, cry out to your best friend
Women gossip seems to be a natural talent, especially after being stimulated, many women look for help from a pig who has no idea after her husband's cheating. Especially, they like to find common friends of husband and wife to "advise". How can she know that at most, people's family is "why not leave". After all, marriage is the matter of your husband and wife, and what friends see is superficial, There is no time to go into the details of your husband and wife. Even when the whole affair of husband's cheating is presented in front of others, even if he comes back, it is only superficial. It is difficult to sew up the scars torn by you.
Third, disguised as a detective to peep
I don't know whether it's the nature of women to watch more detective films, or whether it's the nature of women. Women usually investigate their husbands, for example, what to look at their husbands' mobile phone messages, contacts, network chat records, e-mail addresses, wallets, and even find out their mobile phone call records, bank records, and so on. These actions seem smart, and they are mostly carried out while the husband is not paying attention or behind the scenes, but they will always be found by the husband. Once the husband detects it, he will either say that you are nervous and suspicious, or that you know all about it. Then you can do what you want to do. There is a dead pig who is not afraid of boiling water. The final result is that "I didn't eat pork, but I was ashamed", and my husband's infidelity will also change from "on the ground" to "underground".
Fourth, report to the elders
Some shrewder women will naturally spread his "deeds" among their relatives and friends after a man's cheating. I originally wanted to get the help of these elders and hoped that they would persuade my husband to repent. However, as long as this extremely private matter is spread among the elders, it will inevitably escalate into a "family war". It is obvious that the public and the in-laws will definitely have differences in their view of men's infidelity. Even though they are both just, the words of exhortation are also very different. But in the view of men, if they open their privacy, the so-called dignity and face will be torn away, he will also be more reckless to go to the third party to complain, Keep silent in the "education" of the elders, and when the wind has passed, they will turn back and bite you.
Fifth, negotiate with your rival
Although money is a good thing, it is not omnipotent. There are many things in the world that money can't buy. Negotiating with the enemy in love is only possible after careful consideration. If you want to drive away the enemy in love. There is also a fundamental similarity with taking money to settle, that is, as long as the wife has such a move, it will lower her position invisibly. As long as you open your mouth to find the mistress, people will know very clearly that you are asking her to let go, and the wife will lose in momentum.
It is very normal for couples to fight and make noise during the time, let alone blindly choose divorce. You should make your marriage more beautiful with a little popularity.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
