It is said that men are lower body animals, and sex is important to them. However, men also have emotional needs in addition to sex, but they are not good at expressing them in language. They neglect their emotional needs for a long time, and eventually their relationships break down.
Apart from sex, what do men most want from their wives?
1. Gain a sense of trust
Most men believe that providing adequate protection and support to their loved ones is the best kind of love. Therefore, women should believe in their talents and skills, and provide unconditional support. Such encouragement is the most meaningful. The most important thing is to make the husband feel like an adult, not a child. Strengthen the trust between men and women through small things in life, and let men demonstrate their responsibilities in their relationships.
2. Gain understanding
Understanding is important in couples' lives, and it is only understanding that is the beginning and foundation of a good relationship. Generally speaking, what men need is not their partner's advice, but their understanding of themselves, expressing their understanding of men in communication.
3. Gain recognition and appreciation
Almost every male wants to be recognized by others, so they should not be stingy in praising their sexual partners, but they should not be too fake. They must ensure that the praise expressed is genuine and not too deliberate, such as telling their husband which shirt to wear is beautiful and handsome, thanking him for the efforts and care he has brought to the family, and expressing their appreciation for his husband.
4. Accept
Everyone wants to be accepted by others and hates others trying to change themselves, especially men. If a wife wants to change a man, they may be hurt or angry. Therefore, a wife should adapt to differences with her husband and promise not to agree during the debate. She should learn to accept herself and her husband. When it comes to different perspectives and activities, she should give up her ideas and accommodate all the shortcomings of the other person.
5. Gain respect
Respect is the prerequisite for creating a friendly and harmonious marriage. The way to express love and respect is to actively listen to each other when they speak, without interruption. In addition, it is necessary to consider the needs and future plans of men and not make negative comments on their thoughts and opinions.
The success of any relationship is based on trust, as is marriage. Couples build trust in each other's relationships through their sincerity and abundance. Whether men or women, they should abide by the agreement and speak to the letter.
6. Get companionship
It's not easy for two people to get together. A long-term marriage is not only about love, but also about family relationships. Don't take others' contributions for granted. Instead, learn to give. You can travel with your husband during holidays or stay at home to watch male favorite sports channels together.
7. Obtain idle independent time
Everyone wants a period of quiet and alone time, which can help people regain their spirits. Therefore, women should give their husbands some independent space to learn to relax, not to nag and ask questions all the time. Men must pay attention to their schedule when taking a break, and cannot plan too many activities.
Warm reminder
To succeed in a marriage, you must achieve the above points. Trust, understanding, and tolerance are important. No matter how busy work is, couples need to communicate more to understand each other's true thoughts. If there are no problems or problems, the problems will become increasingly complex.