Post Date December, 03 2023
There are already plans to send people to travel in space today. Everyone knows that pushing a weight of 500 grams into space requires a lot of fuel, so if you participate in space tourism, you need to prepare to leave most of your things on Earth and board a spaceship empty-handed.
Space time "is a very special time that couples spend together. During this period, both parties should put aside all unpleasant memories or emotions, just like going to space in a spaceship and leaving all unpleasant memories on Earth. Both parties can completely let go of the topic that is causing tension in their relationship, say some true feelings and words that are helpful to their relationship, and unreservedly offer care, support, and love to each other.
The purpose is to prevent negative emotions or attitudes from forming a barrier, causing the relationship to become distant, communication to be interrupted, and the other party to feel helpless.
The term 'space time' needs to be agreed upon between the two in advance so that it can be used when needed. The two of them sat down when they were in a good mood and discussed the rules and implementation procedures of "space time" clearly. Just like buying insurance, it would be too late to establish it when needed. This is a technique that can prevent relationship deterioration and even save a relationship on the brink of rupture, so it is worth establishing for every couple.
In general, the "space time" should not be less than 1 hour each time, with an ideal of 1-2 hours. In "space time", both parties never argue or complain to each other, do not bring up unresolved issues, do not settle old accounts, do not negotiate, do not force each other, do not vent their emotions on each other, and do not use methods such as procrastination or deception. The topic of choice should be the happy things they have done together, some dreams in their hearts, and the situation of some old friends. As for the environment, the most ideal is a quiet, comfortable, and undisturbed coffee shop, or a tea house in a suburban attraction. The key to choosing an environment is to stay away from the environment of arguments and disputes.
When the two of them had a quarrel and had a cold war for a while, one of them thought of repair work, so he/she asked the other party for a "space time". This requirement can be expressed orally or in writing. If a "space time" has already restored the relationship between the two, they can choose another time to discuss the matter that caused the conflict. Remember: It is necessary to choose a different time to avoid contamination of the positive perception of "space time" between the two. If one 'space time' fails to achieve the desired effect, the two can agree on a date for the second 'space time' before the end.
In the operation of 'space time', two things are important:
(1) When one party proposes the need for "space time", the other party shall not refuse, but only consider arranging a time to implement it as soon as possible. Space time should be seen as a first aid kit for a relationship between two people, and as an emergency response mechanism for one party to feel a crisis in their relationship. If one party refuses the other party's request for 'space time', their message to the other party is: 'I don't care about our relationship anymore, even if it breaks down, I don't care.'
(2) Both parties need to agree on a gesture as a signal. In 'space time', if one party forgets to follow the rules and starts complaining, criticizing, or venting, the other party can easily send out this signal. When one party sees this signal, they need to immediately change their topic and behavior. If the other party sends this signal three times and does not change, the other party has the right to interrupt "space time" and leave.
