What are common sexual misconceptions? Both men and women desire the pleasure and satisfaction of sexual intercourse, but sometimes a relative lack of sexual knowledge or excessive pursuit of pleasure can lead them to unconsciously fall into some sexual misconceptions. Let's take a look at common sexual misconceptions together? See if you have ever committed these problems.
Myth 1: Having sex must have an orgasm.
Orgasm is what most women dream of, and some women believe that they have not reached orgasm and are not having sexual intercourse. Professor Roy, a philosophy professor at Indiana University in the United States, believes that the absence of orgasm does not necessarily mean poor sexual activity. Orgasm is not equal to sexual satisfaction. Of course, reaching orgasm will make you feel better. If you have the conditions to reach orgasm, you can do it seriously. When conditions are not met, do not blindly pursue. Otherwise, it is easy to experience a sense of loss due to high expectations and failure to achieve them, resulting in the loss of the sexual benefits that one originally had. Due to individual differences in the human body, some women may not even experience orgasm for a lifetime, but they may feel sexual pleasure; And some women feel disappointed even if they can reach orgasm every day because they have a higher goal in their hearts. After all, having an orgasm does not necessarily mean having sexual pleasure.
Myth 2: Sexual satisfaction only belongs to young people.
According to sexologists, a person's sexual ability is lifelong. However, some people are affected by various factors such as their physical condition and living environment, resulting in overdraft or premature loss. As long as the body is not particularly poor, having sex at the age of 70 or 80 is not a myth. It's just a decrease in frequency or quality due to the influence of physical fitness. Moreover, having sex in the elderly can help enhance mutual feelings, exercise corresponding organs, and enhance physical vitality. Never mistake the belief that sexual pleasure belongs only to young people. More importantly, the content of sexual activity is not that only sexual organ contact is considered sexual activity. Caressing, kissing, and other activities can stimulate people's interest and passion.
Myth 3: Genitalia is the engine of desire.
Although the genitals of both men and women can indeed generate strong sexual pleasure through caressing, the brain is actually the most important sexual organ. Because the brain can determine your feelings and generate sexual desire. So during sexual activity, it's not about blindly touching the opposite genitalia, but about mobilizing the other person's emotions.