Post Date December, 02 2023
Distance produces beauty, which is a statement that space is too luxurious to be true. From a practical perspective, "With distance, beauty disappears" is more appropriate. Even after marriage, the same is true of couples. Long separation is a huge test of marriage. Time and distance are both emotional costs. Without them, any marriage is fragile, and extramarital love can now be exploited.
Marriage separated by two places cannot withstand the test
Many couples underestimate the ability to distance and always believe that "a small separation is better than a new marriage." However, it has proven that "a small separation" does not bring a sweeter feeling than a new marriage, but leaves a deep scar on the marriage.
Calling and contacting each other every day is very simple to say. When put into practice, various drawbacks will arise and obstacles will arise in communication. For example, when a husband is in a foreign country, he needs to adapt to everything, and his time and energy are limited. In addition, the man's innate reluctance to complain leads to his failure to fulfill his original agreement.
"While a wife cannot appreciate the various unhappiness her husband has encountered in a foreign country, she can naturally misunderstand and suspect her husband by listening to his one-sided statement of good news and not bad news.". At this point, the most important defense line of trust between couples living apart in two places gradually begins to appear "rout", and further quarrels indicate that the two people have already experienced communication difficulties.
Disputes between couples who quarrel under the same roof are relatively easy to resolve, but lack of face to face reduces their sense of trust. Disputes between couples living separately from each other can be exacerbated by the noise. Husbands will think that they feel aggrieved when they suffer here just for the sake of their family, but they cannot be understood and even suspected; A wife may feel disappointed and frustrated when she struggles to support herself at home while her husband is at ease there. At this time, both of them want to find a relationship around them, and the idea of extramarital love flashes into their hearts.
The infidelity of separated couples may be a certain inevitable situation
Couples living apart in two places, to a large extent, choose temporary separation in order to earn money and create better material conditions. However, many couples who live separately do not divorce because of money, but because they cannot withstand the test of their emotions. Couples who choose to live separately from each other should weigh carefully before making a decision about whether they value money or affection more in marriage.
People's psychological instinct is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. When a lover is not around and loves and does not understand their own pain, there are obstacles to communication between the two parties, and the intervention of a third party will appear natural. Morality and law have no effect in the face of fragile and changeable human nature. Many couples who live separately end up cheating on one or both of them.
