Post Date December, 02 2023
Zhang Bin, chief physician of the Department of Sexual Medicine of the Third Affiliated Hospital of CUHK, said that such patients are often encountered in the hospital, and they have very successful erections when they encounter "infidelity". But after returning home, he may suddenly fall into a state of impotence.
This is because some men feel very guilty after "cheating", because in their subconscious, they still want to be a good man with a sense of family responsibility. The occurrence of extramarital affairs makes such men unable to accept themselves, and the guilt mentality interferes with the brain nerves for a long time, which makes these men feel exhausted. At this time, mental impotence will occur.
At the same time, the fear of pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases is also a kind of mental burden for extramarital sexual behavior, which leads to the inability to vent freely during orgasm, which will easily lead to impotence over time.
These four kinds of men love to cheat
Song Chongsheng, deputy chief physician of the Psychiatric Research Center of Beijing Huilongguan Hospital, said that these four kinds of men are easy to cheat:
Playful men - if some men are easy to "win" from women in their past emotional experience, the joy after success will inspire men to conquer the next goal. They often hunt for the same type of people. This kind of man is flirtatious, so it is easy to cheat.
Men who lack love - some men will settle down and get married after reading the spring scenery of the world. But some of them will cheat later, and some of them are relatively passive. Because he can't get the love of his wife at home, he has no tender consideration, no tenderness, only quarreling, nagging, nitpicking and blaming, so the man will naturally want to escape, and will inevitably fall into her arms.
Unconfident men - some men are self-confident and always need the admiration of women to affirm themselves. After all, wives are familiar relatives and sometimes ignore the psychological needs of men. So men need to gain confidence and admiration from other women. Generally, the junior will have these characteristics: obedience to men, gentle worship, and dependence. Such men tend to be mentally derailed first and physically derailed later.
Men with compensation psychology - if women have relatively rich emotional experience or betrayal experience, men may also cheat out of revenge to balance the injured heart. At this time, the psychological significance of derailment is more like a kind of self treatment. Some men's cheating is a rebound after depression. The depression may come from the control of the partner, or from the dissatisfaction of the partner, or from the financial distress. Once the depression is relieved, these men will seek compensation. Therefore, some bigwigs will leave their wives behind and cheat after their success.
Of course, most men are just "flower hearts", which is also a different recognition of the existence of women. From cheating to cheating is a qualitative process. There are relatively few such men, and women need not panic.
