Post Date December, 02 2023
To be honest, I am not a marriage expert, but I have just lost my beloved woman and ended a 16 year marriage. Divorce has given me some insights, and I really hope that the following suggestions are something I have long understood.
1. Never stop dating or courting.
From the moment she promised to make love to you, she entrusted her heart to you. You should strive to protect this most precious gift. Don't take what you get for granted, including your woman.
2. Falling in love with her time and time again.
People are animals that can change, and in 5 years, you will never be what you are today. She doesn't need to be with you who has changed forever. If you ignore her inner feelings, she can also give her heart to others. Always strive for her love as you did when you first made love.
Always see her best side.
Pay more attention to the place where you love her, and her goodness will be magnified in your eyes, and you can't help but immerse yourself in the river of love; On the contrary, if you always pay attention to her problems, you will be upset.
Your task is not to change or 'repair' her.
Your task is to love her as she is now. If she changes, love her after the change, whether it's the change you want or not.
5. Make her feel your love every day.
Learn the love phrases she enjoys listening to, and understand the methods that make her feel important and cherished. Make a list of 10 things that make her feel loved, and then continuously practice them in daily life.
6. Treat her as your most important customer.
Share your time, attention, and soul with it. When you are with her, your brain needs to clear all distractions, that's the time you truly spend together.
7. Look at her with gender and let her revel in your masculine charm.
Under your powerful power, she will transform into a feminine beauty. Because she knows you deserve complete trust.
8. Give her space.
The nature of women is to give love. Sometimes, you need to remind her to set aside time to take care of herself. Sometimes, she needs to fly away from your branches and search for something that can nourish her soul. If you give her space, she will come back with a new song to sing for you.
Be a completely transparent person.
If you want to gain trust, be brave enough to share everything, especially what you don't want to confide in. Selfless love requires courage, and it is precisely this kind of courage that makes her fall in love with your darkness, just as she falls in love with your light. If you always wear a mask to perfectly showcase yourself, then you will never be able to experience all dimensions of love.
10. Don't stop making progress together.
A pool of stagnant water is a breeding ground for diseases, and only flowing springs can maintain freshness. Muscles can quickly atrophy without exercise, and marriage is no exception. Find common goals, dreams, and strive together.
11. Forgive the other party immediately.
Focus on the future without worrying about the past. Not becoming a hostage taken by history. Entanglement with past mistakes is like adding a heavy anchor to the ship of marriage. Forgiveness is the only way to regain its freedom.
12. Choose love at all times.
Nothing can threaten the happiness of marriage, love will always help you overcome difficulties.
These are my painful insights. Men, be a husband that my wife can't help but boast to others.
