Post Date December, 03 2023
When you are alive, you must participate in social interaction. The scope of social interaction is closely related to everyone's occupation, hobbies, lifestyle and geographical location. But in real life, some people can't make friends in social life, or after making friends for a short time, their friends leave him, and their relationship with colleagues is not harmonious. The reason is that this kind of bad psychological state in social interaction hinders the normal development of interpersonal relationships. That is, the social morbid psychology mentioned by psychologists is more common:
1. Inferiority complex: Some people tend to have a sense of inferiority complex, and even look down on themselves, lack self-confidence, lack courage to do things, fear to follow the lead, and have no own opinions. If this kind of psychology is not overcome, it will wear the unique personality of people.
2. Coward mentality: It is mainly seen in people who are not deeply involved in the world, have shallow experience, have introverted personality and are not good at words. Because of cowardice, they dare not express what they think is right in social life after careful consideration. This kind of psychology can also be observed by others, and the result is that they have an opinion on themselves and are unwilling to become good friends.
3. Suspicious psychology: Some people tend to look at each other with distrust in social life or entrust friends to do things. They are suspicious for no reason, catch the wind and gossip. For example, some people entrust friends to do things, but ask others what they say when they do things. The result has affected the relationship between friends.
4. Rebellious psychology: some people always like to compete with others to show that they are innovative; If you say it is right, I will say it is wrong, which makes others feel bad about themselves.
5. Playful psychology: Some people regard making friends as a play. They change their minds, deal with things everywhere, brag and say beautiful things. Once they meet someone, they will say how deep they are with someone. This kind of people only make superficial contact with others, so they have no friends with deep feelings.
6. Greedy mentality: Some people think that the purpose of making friends is to "make use of each other". Only when they meet friends who are useful to themselves and can bring benefits to them, can they make friends, and often "cross the river and tear down the bridge". This kind of greed for money and profit will damage one's own personality.
7. Indifference: Some people are indifferent to all kinds of things as long as they have nothing to do with themselves, or mistakenly think that harsh words, aloof attitude, and striding are "personality", which makes others dare not approach themselves, thus losing some friends.
