Post Date December, 02 2023
Wrong view: The arrival of a child will make the relationship between the couple more profound and make the marriage life happier.
Fact: A large number of studies and survey results show that the arrival of the first child will alienate the relationship between husband and wife and bring invisible pressure to marriage. But the divorce rate of families with children is slightly lower than that of families without children.
Wrong view: The key to a long marriage is luck and romance.
Fact: More important than luck and romance is responsibility and respect. Couples who have been in love for decades describe their marriage as a work created with great efforts. The happiest lovers are also friends who share their feelings and interests in life.
Wrong view: The higher the education, the harder it is for women to marry.
Fact: The latest marriage survey shows that nowadays, women with college degrees are more likely to find love than women without college degrees. This is a major change compared with the past.
Wrong view: unmarried cohabitation can make two people better understand each other and have a more harmonious and beautiful marriage relationship.
Fact: The probability of cohabitants breaking up after marriage is high. One of the reasons is that since they are so easy to give themselves to each other, they will easily break up once there is a conflict after marriage. Experts pointed out that couples living together before marriage lack the courage to solve problems when they encounter difficulties.
Wrong view: Married couples' satisfaction with sex life has declined.
Fact: After marriage, men and women are more satisfied with sex life than unmarried men and women, and can be satisfied both mentally and physically.
Wrong view: There is no difference between cohabitation and marriage, but there is no certificate.
Fact: Cohabitation does not have the physical and psychological benefits of marriage. Cohabitation partners lack the loyalty between married couples, and they pay more attention to themselves.
Wrong view: since unhappy people have divorced, those who still maintain marriage are happy people.
Fact: Marriage satisfaction has declined compared with the past 20 or 30 years, because modern people are under great pressure at work and there is too little interaction and communication between husband and wife.
