In marriage, it is not necessarily women who need a sense of security. In fact, you should know that food has two sides. While you need a sense of security, men also need a sense of security. So, can you give a man's sense of security? Let's take a look at it with a small editor!!
How to give men a sense of security in marriage
Men's need for security is far beyond women's imagination. For example, when men choose a mate, they will say that they want the other party to be gentle, kind, considerate, and considerate, which is actually the embodiment of their desire to get a sense of security. When men are tired and fail, they are most willing to return to women's side to seek comfort and security. In fact, men and women are the same in many ways. Men will also encounter what they may encounter in women. Fear, anxiety, fear and other emotional expressions are common in women. Men will also have them when they encounter setbacks and failures, and their intensity is not necessarily lower than women's feelings. It's just that men are more rational or forced to hide their feelings. But in their hearts, there are many feelings of insecurity.
If you want to have a deeper and lasting relationship and a stronger marriage relationship, both men and women should take the "sense of security" as the cornerstone of their relationship and strive to build it. In order to create a sense of security, we should take some practical actions. For example, both sides should learn to "protect" each other. Love and marriage are a division of labor based on feelings. Generally speaking, men should bear more financial responsibilities, while women should also bear more responsibilities for taking care of their families. But both sides must work hard and can rely on each other, so that the sense of security will naturally be there. We should also communicate with each other's ideas frequently.
In life, there must be times when you are in a low mood and need comfort from others. When he comes to you dejected and looks forward to your comfort, but you don't notice his mood at all, even sarcastic and sarcastic, then how can your relationship be strong? Therefore, we must learn to understand each other's emotions and share the sorrow with him when he is in a bad mood. In addition, learn to tolerate each other's mistakes. Everyone has a time to make mistakes, and everyone has a time to make mistakes. If he did something wrong but refused to admit it, he should also be given a chance to correct it. After he realizes it, he will be grateful for it and get closer to you. Women need a sense of security, and men also need a sense of security. You must make every effort to give each other warmth and care.
If both parties can do this, the home will become a warm nest, and your marriage will be happy for a long time because of the security brought by each other.