Post Date December, 03 2023
I don't live in the same city as Xia Xia (pseudonym), and we never met before. Through the ancient method of 'blind date', we came together.
When I first met, she left a particularly deep impression on me. She introduced herself with a charming smile on her face and said, "My name is Summer, Summer's Summer, Summer's Day." I have met many girls and have developed strong discriminative abilities, so my intuition tells me that this is a quite special girl.
At noon, the introducer asked us to chat on our own. So, I said to Summer, "This is your city, I don't know where to go. Let's go, you lead the way, I'll treat you." "Do you eat spicy food?" I nodded. I thought I would choose a coffee shop or a more romantic hotel in the summer, but she took me to a small Sichuan restaurant that many people think doesn't follow the rules of blind dates, and then ordered two bowls of beef spicy noodles that don't follow the rules of blind dates. This surprised me a bit.
This' accident 'is not over yet, there is another' accident '. When the waiter was serving cold dishes, he accidentally stumbled under his feet and scattered all the "red oil cucumber" that was the only order in summer on his legs. I thought I would complain loudly in the summer and then ask the waiter to wipe the napkins ten or eight times. But unexpectedly, Summer just wiped it lightly with a tissue and said, "Thank goodness it's not hot food. Girl, don't be so nervous. You have to deal with many people and things one by one. It's okay, hurry up." The calm and sincere attitude in Summer's every move calmed the waiter's trembling hands, saying sorry and thank you repeatedly.
I have never seen such a girl, real and natural, without any affectation. I am attracted by her natural simplicity. According to the customs in my hometown, if the man falls in love with the woman during a blind date, he must give her a piece of gold jewelry on the spot. If the woman accepts it, it is considered an acceptance of the romantic relationship. So, I explained this custom to summer and took out a pair of earrings, Xia Xia smiled and said, "Let's get rid of things. As you can see, I don't wear jewelry, but I am willing to get along with you." I insisted, "This is the program. If one day you don't like me, I won't rely on you for it. By the way, can you tell me why you want to talk to me?" Xia Xia smiled brightly and said, "It's very simple, I like handsome guys
When we broke up, we left each other's contact information. Although we are in two cities, it does not separate our love. On the days when we cannot meet, we communicate our emotions through the internet.
As my understanding deepened, I became more and more fond of this special girl. Whether chatting with her online or meeting and getting along, it feels very comfortable. In front of her, I live a very real life, without deliberately showing anything, let alone concealing anything.
When we were in love, we often felt slight discomfort in the waist during the summer. I accompanied her to the hospital for examination, but the result was a blood vessel tumor growing in the waist. The doctor said that most of the time, this situation is a benign tumor, but it should not be careless, and suggested removal. He also said that there is a possibility of recurrence. So, we searched for relevant information online together, and the results were not optimistic. After surgery for this condition, the probability of a tumor growing again in a certain area of the blood vessel is relatively high, and it may grow in the brain.
Summer asked me anxiously, "Can you accept a girl who may have tumors on her body at any time as your wife?" I looked at her firmly and said, "I can, because I love you
Later, I told my parents about summer's illness. Unexpectedly, my parents strongly opposed my relationship with summer and urged me to consider future generations and quickly break up while my relationship was not deep. I understand my parents' feelings, but I love summer too much, so I regret telling them about it. However, the words have already been spoken, and there is no way to retract them. Moreover, how long can this matter be concealed?
In my heart, I have long regarded summer as my wife, and I love her and everything she does. If I give up on her due to illness, it can only indicate my superficiality and injustice towards her. In order to make summer comfortable for the operation, we received a marriage certificate before the operation.
The surgery went very smoothly, but we didn't have a wedding. The reason is that my parents don't agree with me marrying a sick girl. I couldn't change my family's tough attitude, so I chose to come to Jinan to live with the summer and cut off contact with my family. For my parents, although I have a feeling of guilt, I can't care so much for love anymore.
After getting married, life is sweet and happy. Although I am not satisfied with my job and have few friends in Jinan, having the summer I love deeply is enough. I really feel that as long as I have a lover, I have the whole world. Soon after, summer became pregnant.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
