Love is a compulsory course in life, and in the process of love, the Cold War period is inevitably indispensable. The Cold War is not really scary, what's scary is that we're at a loss.
In fact, there are many ways to break the Cold War
1. Do more self criticism
If there are conflicts between men and women, no matter who is right or wrong, they can no longer be arbitrarily accused, as that will further fuel the fire. Instead, one should do more self criticism and find their own mistakes, which can help alleviate tense relationships.
2. Talk to the same friend
Let this friend analyze the reasons for the cold war between the two of them, and then tell them the solutions separately, so that the problem can be solved as soon as possible.
3. Old place, quiet conversation
Find a place where the two of you often go out and have a good conversation. In this familiar environment, both parties can open up more and tell the story of the conflict. As long as you talk about it, it will be much better.
4. Eating
Eating is always a perfect way to divert attention. You need to be aware that during the Cold War, if you can't control your thoughts, it's unnecessary to think about whether your boyfriend doesn't love me anymore or whether he wants to break up with me.
In fact, boys just want to calm down and solve problems calmly. So, what you need to do is eat and let these thoughts gradually disappear.
5. Separated for a period of time
Give each other more space. During the Cold War, we can temporarily separate for a while, and each other can be quiet. When we miss each other, it's time to make up. This is the natural solution, of course, referring to the short duration of the Cold War.
6. Don't speak ill of each other
During the Cold War, to avoid emotional escalation, it is necessary to speak less and preferably not speak to avoid hurtful words. During this period, both of them were very sensitive and could easily cause trouble if they exchanged malicious words.
7. Proactively admit mistakes
Boys and girls are different. Boys can usually take the initiative and there is nothing to lose face, which can make the other party more dependent on you. Putting down one's own figure, giving the other person a affectionate look, a sincere apology, and sending a signal of reconciliation will strengthen the relationship between each other.