Meng Kai and his wife, Sudan, are colleagues in the same enterprise. Although they are young, they are both mature and have a good relationship after marriage. Meng Kai defeated several strong rivals in the company before catching the Sudan, so Meng Kai cherishes the relationship with his wife very much.
After marriage, Meng Kai handed over the financial power to Sudan. Although their salaries were very low, they felt very satisfied. The Sudan, which has the financial power, also has only organized its living arrangements. Later, in order to enable the Sudan to live a better life, Meng Kai chose to start his own business. At the beginning, it was very difficult, but gradually improved. Their life became richer and richer, but the conflict between the two people became more and more acute.
Meng Kai felt that he was working alone and was under great pressure. He dragged his tired body home every day. When he came home, the Sudan was concerned about how much money he earned every day. He never asked Meng Kai whether he had eaten or whether the company was busy. Meng Kai's wallet is also the most concerned issue of the Sudan. He checks his wallet every day. When he finds that there is less money, he keeps asking where the money is spent. If Meng Kai could not prove the whereabouts of the money, he would be scolded by his wife.
But it never occurred to him that under the strict discipline of the Sudan, Meng Kai had cheated. He felt that there was no pressure only when he was with his lover, and the little lover was considerate and obedient to him, which made Meng Kai find the dignity of being a man. The sultan thought that if he controlled his husband's wallet, he would control his heart, and he would not repent until the truth was revealed.
Control a man's wallet, but not his heart
In life, when women pay attention to men's wallets, their essence is to pay attention to men themselves. Women will think that as long as they keep a man's purse in check, they can lock a man's heart and prevent a man from getting into trouble outside. In fact, it is not as women imagine. If a man who is originally very promiscuous, even if women control all his expenses, but can not control the man's heart, they will do everything they can to "achieve what they want".
But for a man who is loyal to his family, if his wife overrules, it will have the opposite effect. A man will feel that his wife does not trust him. When there is a woman who makes him feel that he can trust each other, they will easily transfer their feelings. This result is caused by the woman herself, who pushed the man she originally loved to other women.
Smart women will not limit men too much. They will treat men in their own unique way and let men obediently and sincerely obey themselves. Women should understand that although they can temporarily control men's "wallets", they cannot really control men's hearts.