Post Date December, 03 2023
In the youth, those flowers with their drunken faces always have a persistent and fanatical attachment to emotions when in love. However, some people believe that falling in love is a way for men's psychological growth, and advocate for men to experience more women. Of course, this statement has already been criticized, but men who are lovelorn do strengthen psychological resilience.
According to a study by the research group "The Impact of Breakups on the Psychological Health of Both Men and Women" at Queen Mary College, University of London, women are more likely to experience psychological problems such as anxiety than men. The reason may be that women are more likely to feel a lack of financial and financial security, while men are more concerned about whether they will be tied down for a lifetime.
After a breakup, it is normal for both parties to experience low emotions and depression, but women take much longer to recover from emotional harm than men, and their mental health will continue to deteriorate with the increase of breakups. Men, on the contrary, have experienced two or more breakups, and their psychological state is extremely good, even healthier than other men.
Men are more prone to depression when they first break up
However, for the emotional reactions at the beginning of a breakup, men are another manifestation. There is a question, who will handle it better when the ark of love encounters an iceberg? The answer is: women. Several research findings suggest that men are more depressed, sad, and anxious after a breakup than women. Men may feel very strong, but in fact, they are very fragile. Many men cannot handle the reasons for breakups well. For example, in the following aspects:
1. Men cover up their pain
When a boy is dumped, his first reaction is: I won't let her know how painful I am. How did he do it: hang out with a few friends. According to a survey by Men's Health Online, 26% of men will hold a dumped party and get drunk after breaking up, but this is just a minority. 36% of men feel that they should see their new rights and thank the person who dumped them. In fact, both of these reactions are masks that conceal their true feelings. It has no help at all for sadness or anger. Men have been feeling sad about their lost relationships, even after their dumped party. And women will immediately cry and tell the truth after a breakup. Research has found that when women face their failed relationships, they may initially feel blue, but quickly emerge from the shadows. Many men want to suppress their emotions, but their emotions cannot be released.
2. Men have fewer friends
One reason why women recover faster than men after a breakup is that they have an amazing social circle. Research shows that men rely on love for emotional intimacy and social support, while women prefer to consider family and female friends as the safest refuge. Including mothers, sisters, friends, beauticians, and drivers, the more she talks to each other, the faster she recovers. On the other hand, men tend to pretend to be indifferent to breakups and not trapped by emotions. Six months later, when the man is willing to face his feelings honestly, what he wants is to return to the girl's side.
3. Men find it difficult to rebuild another relationship
After breaking up, boys first feel very excited and can date other women. But after three, four, or dozens of days, they will realize that it will take a long time to feel as natural as being with their ex girlfriend. A survey by Carnegie Mellon University in the United States shows that girls are better able to adapt to the end of relationships because they have already considered the possibility of breaking up. However, the boy was not prepared. Emotional security cannot be the only reason for being together, which makes him realize how lucky he is to have her, and at the same time, she has already left him. When he got drunk and called her to admit his feelings, it was already too late.
4. Men view emotions as games
The breakdown of many relationships is a subconscious reaction, and men see it as stagnation. They find it boring to go to the same restaurant, face the same person, and engage in repetitive sexual activity. After breaking up, they will immediately realize that being single does not mean champagne or semi naked beauty. Even in exciting bars, they find the intimacy of the past more nostalgic. Research has shown that women consistently excel in social, sexual, and rational intimacy. They often become more aware of long-lasting relationships based on family relationships than men.
The emotions generated by male friends during breakups are depressed, and although men feel very strong, they are actually very fragile. Women perform more clearly than men, but your partner's state after a breakup is excellent, and their mental health is not as good as other men's.
