As the saying goes, couples argue at the end of the bed. A quarrel passed quickly. But if both parties refuse to fight and even talk about "divorce" every time they argue, it not only hurts the couple's long-term relationship, but also if they really remember each other's good intentions after the divorce. So, when couples argue, remember to mention the word 'divorce'.
My husband and I have been married for three years, and we argue every three to five. Every time after an argument, I would go out for a walk alone, while my husband would always struggle to chase me back. Thinking that I was also at fault, I stopped arguing with him. And this argument completely changed our taste.
You're already in your thirties, sitting in front of the computer playing games every day. I worry about everything at home, are you still a man? "Every time I see him sitting next to the computer playing games all day, I feel angry like a passionate lion.
What's wrong with me playing games? I don't know where my family comes from every day. You're just busy every day. "Hearing him talk to me like this, I became even more angry. We talked each other out like a fierce battle on the battlefield. Finally, I said," Let's get divorced, okay? "I thought I was trying to scare him, But who knew that he said, "You can leave as soon as you leave. You think I don't want to leave. It's better to leave, so that you don't have to nag all day and interfere in my life." The next day, we were going to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the formalities, but we couldn't find the marriage certificate. That day, we didn't get divorced either.
Perhaps we will soon go our separate ways and cherish each other again. My husband said, "Can you speak softly every time? The more you say you won't let me play games, the more I play. Don't you understand my personality for so many years?" I said, "Every time you play games, I feel so lonely and bored." My husband suddenly hugged me in his arms, and my tears streamed down.
Finally, my husband and I didn't get divorced, but our relationship improved a lot. Later, we learned that our mother-in-law had hidden our marriage certificate. My husband said, "Fortunately, my mother hid the marriage certificate. Otherwise, we will leave on impulse, and we will regret it!" Later, he and I also quarreled, but no one mentioned divorce anymore.
There is a saying that goes like this: When couples argue, please do not casually propose a divorce, because if mentioned more often, this idea will deeply ingrain in people's hearts and make the person who is arguing seriously consider divorce. So, when couples argue, they should think more from the other person's perspective.
Think more from the other person's perspective
Sometimes when you find your husband unhappy, it's best to stand in his shoes and think about it. Everything has a reason. For example, if a husband plays games, it may be to alleviate work and life pressure; Or perhaps when he gets drunk, he may have a last resort. So, consider the other party more in everything and learn tolerance and understanding in marriage, in order to deepen the relationship between husband and wife.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)