Post Date December, 03 2023
One husband, in cooperation with the measures of urologists, spent a whole year treating erectile dysfunction (ED), but never improved. Finally, at the doctor's suggestion, he went to see a psychiatrist.
Psychologists learned from him that his father died a year and a half ago. That night, he asked to have sex with his wife when he was overwhelmed with grief. Although surprised, his wife actively cooperated. But I didn't expect that from that day on, he lost his former majesty in bed.
In real life, in the face of all kinds of unexpected events in life, such as layoffs, major diseases, car accidents, widows or divorces, and the death of relatives, men will show low emotions, worry, and listlessness, feel "depressed", and even induce depression and other mental disorders. Their emotional fragility will make them particularly need the care and love of their partners. However, when this reaction is manifested in sexual activities, there are often two different manifestations. Some people may be utterly disillusioned with life (including sexual life), and some men will confuse emotional needs with physical needs, and can't figure out whether they want love or sex, so that in a short time there will be reactive hyperactivity, just like the husband's reaction. If not well handled, both of these conditions may induce ED.
When this kind of emergency occurs, people are often confused. It is difficult for men to realize the problem and its seriousness, and it is not easy for them to get out of the dilemma. At this time, the wife should take the initiative to help her husband out of the crisis. For example, a wife can actively distract her husband's attention and relieve his bad mood by chatting, walking, listening to music, etc., instead of indulging in her husband's sexual demands, and can seek the help of a doctor if necessary. Once the sudden factors are removed, most of this reactive ED can return to normal. It is a rare case that the husband's long-term treatment has not improved, but it will also improve after the adjustment of the psychologist.
