Post Date December, 02 2023
"It's not surprising to see things like just falling in love and not getting married. Dink is already all over the street, let alone not getting married.". Five thousand years of Chinese tradition tells us that marriage is very important, and today's people dare to break through the tradition is not to marry! Everything happens for a reason, such as being single, in love, married, gay, and so on. Everyone has different lifestyles, emotional states, thoughts, and personalities, and chooses different paths. Why do many young people in modern times not marry? The reasons are as follows.
The four main reasons why modern young people don't get married are: 1. In recent years, the new force to marry is the post 80s and post 90s. The post 80s are now the backbone of society and the core personnel in all walks of life. With the rapid development of society, economic strength has also greatly improved. In the current era of information sharing, even for one person, life can be very exciting, at least not so boring. Nowadays, people are all intellectuals, and they have many ideas. It is too difficult to meet the right person, so they simply don't have to worry about getting married. After entering society after the 1990s, due to the impact of family planning, most of them have no brothers or sisters, and the only child in the family is hard to avoid being spoiled by their parents. Therefore, now that they feel like a child, they naturally have little consideration for marriage. Like the post 80s generation, most of the post 90s generation also have higher education, open minded, and actually have their own plans for life. This may mean not getting married. Perhaps when they have had enough fun, they may want to get married.
2. Don't want children. Getting married and having children is a natural thing. Nowadays, young people are basically office workers. If their parents are not around, who will bring the children after marriage will basically give up their career, and they will pay for the energy of taking care of the children 24 hours a day. Moreover, taking care of children is a very tiring technical job, and those who have had children should have a deep understanding of it. I won't elaborate on it here. So not wanting children is also an important reason to choose not to marry. 3. The proportion of men and women is unbalanced. Due to the serious ideology of some older generations regarding men over women, there are now fewer women and more men, which has resulted in an embarrassing situation where many men cannot find a partner. "Things are rare and expensive. Nowadays, unmarried women are clearly" sweet cakes ", and they must have the initiative when choosing a partner. After forming a comparison, the marriage of the lowest group of men who are naturally eliminated has become a major issue.". The facts are cruel, and this may not be their choice, but the problems left over by history leave us with nothing but helplessness. In fact, in today's China, there are still many such people.
4. Homosexuality. In fact, the term "homosexual" in early society was very strange, and people always classified this type of person as a pervert. Under social pressure, people with that tendency can only pretend to be normal and live their lives in fear all day long. With the progress of society, people have become open-minded, and society is gradually accepting the emergence of "homosexual" groups. So now more and more people choose to come out, and if they don't, they won't be as secretive and repressive as their predecessors for life. At the two sessions, deputies to the National People's Congress also proposed the legalization of "gay" marriage. Although it was not passed, it marked an increase in the importance of homosexuality in society. "The legalization of gay marriage has a long way to go. We do not advocate homosexuality, but when such groups appear, they do not necessarily need to be seen as beasts of war.". There are tens of millions of "homosexuals" in Chinese society, and they cannot marry, but this is their own choice.
