After seven months of pregnancy, he is looking for someone to talk to outside. What should he do

I have been married to him for eight years and have a son. I originally planned to have a child, but I was worried that he would be alone in the future without siblings. While we were still considering whether to have a second child, I unexpectedly became pregnant. At this point in the matter, I decided to have a baby. Due to age issues, after pregnancy, my body was particularly tired and my emotions were difficult to control. "I still have three months to go before my due date, but I have noticed some abnormalities in my husband.".

He often holds his phone in his arms, and I chat with him, my eyes still drifting on the phone. While he was unprepared, I took the opportunity to seize his mobile phone. On WeChat, he flirted with a woman. Without waiting for me to take a closer look, he reacted and grabbed the phone. "Based on my feeling, I think he's been unfaithful, at least mentally.". I warned him not to mess around, or I'll knock out your child at any time. "My intimidation still had some effect. His face turned very bad and he explained that he was just a netizen and the object of conversation.".

"I was skeptical and stroking the child in my belly, but I didn't continue to ask.". For the sake of the child, I don't want to get angry. "Not asking doesn't mean I don't pursue him, just secretly observing him.". "There are very few opportunities for me to touch his mobile phone, and he won't let me touch it, saying that many customers are inside, which is inconvenient for me to see.". "That time, when he went to take a shower, my mobile phone was beside the pillow. I seized the opportunity to open my mobile phone WeChat and carefully looked for evidence of his infidelity.".

I saw a video of him and a woman in bed, and at the time, I was completely blindsided. A strong blow to self-esteem caused a series of question marks to emerge from the brain. Why betray marriage? Where am I sorry for him? Will the baby in my stomach be born or not? After he came back from the shower, he saw me holding his phone in a daze, as if he understood something. "A moment of nervousness, I hurriedly took my phone back from my hand and explained, 'Whatever you see, it's all a prank, really no cheating. Just an ordinary friend!'"

It's a joke that ordinary friends can take bed photos in bed. Men and women are different. Doesn't he understand this? This time, I can't accept his behavior, and plan to divorce him and kill the child. The little guy seems to have heard my voice and kicked me several times, as if protesting that he is innocent. "My heart is so sad. My eldest son is almost six years old, and divorce has done a lot of harm to the child.". Are unborn children living in a single parent family before life begins? Please give me some guidance on how to walk down?

Reply from the maintenance consultant:

Hello. No one can guarantee that marriage will never go wrong for a lifetime. Facing the problem of marriage, how we solve it is the key. Although divorce is a simple and quick solution, how should we deal with a series of issues after divorce? Never make any decisions when you are in a bad mood. Most thoughts transmitted to the brain on impulse are wrong. Give yourself a calm space to think about what went wrong with your marriage!

It is recommended that you have a good talk. After eight years of marriage, and now that you have children, divorce will push the child to a very helpless state, which may affect his life. "When it comes to considering children, it's not like trying to make do with your marriage for them. The key is to see if your feelings for your husband exist.". "You are pregnant now, so it's not advisable to get angry. Relax and calm down before making plans.".