Actually, he just doesn't like you that much

There are many men in the world, but there is only one type of man who loves you. If you keep asking yourself in your heart, does he love me or not? I tell you, that's not love. It's like having a brazier baking under your feet, and when you can feel the heat, you won't keep asking yourself how to be warm.

My best friend talked about a boyfriend in college and gave him the best of her youth and years. After graduation, his best friend took him to see his parents and wanted to negotiate a marriage. Who would have guessed, her boyfriend said to her, 'It's too early to get married now, let's talk about it later.'.

So later, she really waited for him for a year.

A year later, my best friend talked to her boyfriend about getting married again. I thought he would fully agree, but the answer I got was: I don't have a house, car, or savings, and I can't give you the future you want yet.

My best friend said, I don't care about those substances, I just want to be with you.

My boyfriend said, 'Isn't it good for us to be like this now?'? We have been together all along. If you get married, let's talk about it later.

Let's talk later, let's talk later again.

My best friend complained to me, saying that she didn't know how long she would have to wait for his proposal. She felt that her passion was gradually being consumed and was about to be consumed.

Six months later, my boyfriend cheated. The object of the infidelity turned out to be the daughter of the boss of his company, a girl who grew up from a wealthy family with a golden spoon.

On the day of the breakup, my best friend hugged me and cried. She said that I had been in a relationship with him for six years, but I never expected to end up losing to a mistress.

I said, it's not that you lost to Xiao San, but that he really doesn't like you as much as you imagine.

Men all have a hunting mentality. If they really like you, they won't be willing to let your freedom go and let your flower scatter in the world. He will want to catch you and tie you to his side; He will want to take care of you and be with you for the rest of his life; He will promise you a future and work hard for it.

He will hug you, kiss you, tell you, don't hesitate, please be my woman.

You have given yourself so many reasons, you have given him so many excuses, but in the end, it is nothing but a naked truth: in fact, he just doesn't like you that much.

The day before yesterday, pomelo made a blind date with an IT man, dressed in a suit and shoes, who was elegant and elegant.

I asked her how she felt after the conversation, and she said, 'It's great. We had a great conversation, and before leaving, he even asked me for my phone number.'.

A few days later, Pomelo suddenly called me on QQ, saying that something had made her extremely depressed.

What did I say? She said that since we parted ways that day, she hasn't even received a phone call.

We have endless topics to talk about, and he clearly says he is very similar to me, but why

Grapefruit fell into silence before finishing speaking.

I said, have you ever thought that he doesn't really like you that much.

How could it be? Grapefruit asked innocently. If he doesn't like me, why would he ask me to leave a phone number?

I thought for a moment and sent her a paragraph like this.

I know you have given him various reasons: he may not contact me because he has been too busy with work recently, he may be under too much pressure and not in a good mood, or he may be introverted and not very good at chasing girls.

Or perhaps he lost his address book because his phone was broken, so he forgot my phone number. So, he couldn't find me.

You remember the day you met, we had a great conversation.

You sit face to face, he listens to you talking about those trivial things. Suddenly, when you mention a topic that interests him, he immediately becomes interested. You think he's been looking into your eyes, you think he's getting closer to you. He nodded in agreement with everything you said. He said that he thinks the same way. Then you looked at each other and smiled, feeling like you hit it off and met as usual. Do you think he likes you.

But.

If he really likes you, he won't forget your phone number, won't stop contacting you, won't stop asking you out to meet. On the contrary, he will use all his connections and connections to inquire about and contact you. Now is no longer the era of flying pigeons passing letters, finding someone is simply an easy task. Weibo, WeChat, Renren, QQ, each one has been linked to their phone number. So, it's not that he can't find you. The key is whether he wants to find you or not.

My Mantou is a cute girl with mild personality and sweet appearance. Last Friday, while discussing topic collection with her, she suddenly asked me, 'Is there a moment when you completely want to give up on someone?'?

I asked alertly, 'Why?'?

She sent a smiling face. Just ask privately, hehe.

I said I can't recall it at all. She replied to me, um... but I still remember.

Mantou said that she and her ex boyfriend had been on and off eight times. At that time, she was more or less inferior to him. Perhaps it was because she liked him too much, and over time, that kind of liking became a form of worship and admiration. She always feels that he has more knowledge and understanding than herself. So, she always felt that she wasn't good enough. So, she has been accommodating him.

When we broke up for the ninth time, Mantou was very angry. The reason is that she felt that her indulgence did not earn him his care and concern for her. On the contrary, she felt that there was no such thing as her in his world.

That day, she went to him to retrieve her belongings when her ex boyfriend suddenly hugged her from behind and slowly took her hand. Mantou was a little surprised at first, but soon fell into his gentle hometown. She did not refuse him. After rubbing his ears and temples for a while, he whispered in her ear, 'Don't go.'. When Mantou asked him why, he said that even if he is not a lover in the future, I hope we can get together as often as before.

Mantou made a buzzing sound in his mind.

She said she thought her ex boyfriend's retention was because she loved her and because she couldn't let go. But the fact told her that he only used her as a spare tire.

In an instant, I felt that he was very low. Mantou said. What he couldn't bear was not the bond of affection, but the physical relationship.

I feel that my dignity has been trampled upon. Mantou said again. That time, I truly saw this person and decided to end it completely with him.

Do you think he never liked me from beginning to end? Mantou asked.

No, it's not either. I said. Perhaps he just doesn't like you that much.

A listener sent me a private message on Weibo, saying that she had a crush on a male colleague, but he refused to confess. I asked her, how exactly did you fall in love? She replied to me that her male colleagues chat with her every day, from the hottest movies and TV dramas to anime and ball games, they almost talk about everything. Before going to bed, they would say good night to each other. She said she really doesn't understand why he hasn't pursued her yet.

I said you hinted at him. Do you have a liking for him? She said she not only hinted, but also made it clear. She clearly told him that she liked him. After being confessed, the male colleague remained indifferent and in a "three no" state. Not proactive, not rejecting, not responsible. For this, she expressed her inner torment.

There are many "three no" men around us.

They may not be as beautiful as jade, but they are all dignified.

They are full of sentiment and charm.

They have one or two tragic love histories.

They love to tell jokes and have a lot of body language.

They are good at saying some beautiful love words.

They have a natural melancholic temperament.

They will make fun of you on social media and make fun of you when they have nothing to do.

So, you fell. So, you take it seriously.

You start hoping to receive his messages every day, and you start exploring in the office, taking a photo of him when he's not paying attention. You start to feel uneasy, and you start to think of him when you don't notice him. You know, you must have fallen in love with him.

Do you think he should be the same. Otherwise, why does he come to me every day, tell jokes to me every day, make me happy every day, and say good night to me every day?

Finally, one day, you couldn't bear to ask him, do you like me? The other party hesitated on the other end of the phone for a long time, then opened the topic. Suddenly, your heart sank and you asked yourself, 'Why is this happening?'?

Yes, why is this happening? His performance clearly likes my performance, why did he hesitate after I pointed it out?

There is only one answer: in fact, he just doesn't like you that much.

A man really likes you, he can't wait to catch you quickly. How could he be willing to let you go and wait for others to chase him. Delaying to confess, or pretending to be foolish and innocent even after you hint and express it, can only indicate that he just wants to maintain an ambiguous relationship with you, he just enjoys the pleasure of this alienation, he is just bored and wants to add some fun to life, he just doesn't want to be responsible for you.

When encountering such a man, I just want to say, don't give him any excuses, stay away from him.

There are many men in the world, but there is only one type of man who loves you.

Many people tend to use their personality to explain everything when they try to justify each other in their relationships. They are introverted, arrogant, and reserved. But girl, don't forget that everyone has the same commonalities. Like will give, care will connect. The love of a deep person may be even more intense and urgent. The love that cannot be felt is heartless.

If you keep asking yourself in your heart, does he love me or not? I tell you, that's not love. It's like having a brazier baking under your feet, and when you can feel the heat, you won't keep asking yourself how to be warm.

The man who truly loves you will take your relationship seriously; The man who truly loves you would rather be wronged than let you be wronged.

He won't play around with you.

He won't ignore your feelings.

He won't do anything that makes you cry.

He won't deceive or harm you.

He will listen attentively to every word you say.

He will take that step before you take the initiative.

He will sincerely apologize after doing something wrong.

He will kiss your forehead and the corners of your mouth.

He will buy you many gifts.

He will teach those who bully you a lesson.

He will take you as his own.

He will take you to meet friends and parents.

He will promise you a future.

He will propose to you.

He will give you a home.

If a man cannot achieve the above points, please automatically translate his behavior as: in fact, he just doesn't like you that much.