Women often complain about men's promiscuity, especially when faced with beautiful women. In fact, there are differences between men and women, and there are also significant differences in sexual psychological habits between men and women. The sexual and psychological habits of young men in China mainly include the following:
1. Likes to see women naked
Male sexuality is easily provoked by nude photos and strip dancing. This is because women are tactile, while men are visual. Men like to see women naked, and the strength of their sexual consciousness is determined by the inherent relationship between their own color, emotion, and sexuality, as well as the difficulty of being close to their objects. That is to say, the more concealed the female part is, the more stimulating it is to the male psychological state. This is because imagination is stimulated, causing him to think of the next scene, and at the same time, it also makes him imagine that he will personally uncover the last part, which makes the feeling stronger. So, compared to frivolous female sex, shy female sex is more stimulating for male sex. In fact, not only do men have a tendency to see women naked, but women also have a latent tendency to see men naked, but they are not as strong and proactive as men.
2. Likes to touch women
The psychological characteristics of male sexuality determine their preference for touching female sexuality, and male sexuality is innate with a strong desire for "touch heterosexuality". This is in line with a principle of zoology: "sex love behavior is possible only when the male plays his enthusiasm." For men and women in love, the male especially hopes to touch the female, because he hopes to show the intimacy of both sides concretely and hope to be confirmed in his heart. Furthermore, due to his physiological and psychological factors, he wants to achieve the second and third steps through the first step. As a woman in Chekhov's "Cherry Orchard" said; If you were to kiss your hand, then you would definitely kiss your shoulder, kiss your shoulder
3. Likes lewd talk
When several young men gather together, especially when a few acquaintances chat together, they often engage in indecent conversations. This cannot be simply regarded as low-level obscenity, as it is a common male sexual psychological reaction. There are three main reasons for this: to dispel boredom and use such boring words to relax the tension of daily life; Enhance the harmonious and harmonious atmosphere of small talk; When there is female sex nearby, someone intentionally uses obscene language to witness the reaction of women when they hear such words. Among indecent talkers, people of different ages and experiences have different psychological states. Older and more experienced people tend to talk obscenely, often boasting about their knowledge and knowledge. This mentality, which should have been concealed, is difficult for women to understand. Young and inexperienced people often engage in indecent conversations out of a strange sense of vanity, unwilling to be perceived as inexperienced or ignorant of the world, and thus pretending to be clever and engaging in special conversations. In addition, some people are in a tense state of sexual hunger and thirst, and their lewd conversations have the effect of relaxing tension and releasing sexual desire.
4. I like to listen to women's past
Men who are in the romantic stage either ask the woman's past directly or pretend to be indifferent. Why is this happening? Because men have a strong desire for dominance. Men have a mentality that when they fall in love with a woman and want to marry her, they hope to monopolize her from now on, as well as their own past. Once a woman has a lover, she will care about her present and future, but not about her past. Male sex, on the other hand, is different as they subconsciously have the idea of "knowing everything about their future partner".
5. Likes to look at women
There is a phenomenon in life where two groups of men and women walk in opposite directions on the street, passing by and giving each other a glance. At this point, the female gaze is directed towards the same sex, while the male gaze is directed towards the opposite sex. A female glance is a subconscious psychology of confrontation, competition, and comparison, while a male glance is an unintentional 'multi vision'. There is also a phenomenon in life where a man who has just bid farewell to his girlfriend and once he sees another beautiful woman, he will sincerely admire her. This psychological phenomenon of male sexuality is like a butterfly flying from one flower to another, even if one is in love, one cannot help but turn their gaze towards another. As a female, don't mind too much about it, because male is always "multi minded" about anything.