Post Date December, 02 2023
As a woman, what is the greatest goal in life.
After saying this,
Start smoking yourself again - why say 'as a woman' instead of 'as a human'? The emphasis on gender is still due to weak habits.
My mother is very sad, watching my friends around me marry off one by one, worried about the disaster that hit her hands.
Sometimes when she receives calls from my friends, she feels very embarrassed and asks, "Can you help her find a good man? You've already found a good man yourself." Then she even threatens, "You're her best friend -" which makes me furious.
I am also reflecting on why I still haven't married, and then I have the initial question: As a woman, what is the biggest goal in life? Getting married? Is marriage the ultimate goal?
Of course not.
Now I'm glad I didn't get married early. At that time, I knew shit. I only saw men but never good men. I am the kind of person who hopes to get things done one step at a time. Once married, I cannot divorce, and if I got married early, my current resume would definitely be 'divorced without children'. That's what I hate to see even more.
And the more you can't get married, the more you can't get married, which is a truth. Because as I grow older, my economic conditions and social value increase simultaneously, unmarried men of my age are no longer worthy of me. Especially when you get older, your personality may be somewhat peculiar. I now understand why people say that "old maids" are not easy to get along with. It's not just that they have a strange temper, but who doesn't have a temper? But women with a family and a room will control their temper due to the constraints of the social environment and the ubiquitous influence. We are single women who have no family or job, somewhat of a jerk like this. We have enough to eat alone, and the whole family is not hungry, not in debt, not in debt to anyone. Why should we control it? We are already running rampant in the countryside, we are still in a rage, and we have to ignore others.
I'm very sorry, my mother. At this age, my expectations for men are not only not low at all, but also getting higher and higher. I didn't consider myself an old junk at all, and I wanted to accompany you to half sell and half deliver. Now I feel that I am hardworking, brave, serious, and lively. I have already made it into something, and when I look around, even idle people won't catch my eye. Of course, he was still very humble and said, "I'm looking for a man now. I don't want him to help me, just ask him not to drag me down
My girlfriend often regrets not agreeing to a man early and still feels lonely. I comforted her by saying, "Those women who got married early get married because they don't have the ability to stay unmarried and can't take care of themselves. However, if we have the conditions to choose to be single, it means that the conditions are still excellent
Our goal in life as unmarried single women is to do as we please. Now I understand more and more why older girlfriends are surrounded by young and beautiful boys. Sanle said, "I don't believe I'm ten years old now. I can't let such a beautiful and smart little boy fall for me." The more I can't get married, the more confident I am. The more I understand what "rare goods can be found" in myself, the more I feel like there are countless doors in front of me, and behind them, there are countless possibilities.
It's okay if we can't get married. I'm comforting my peers and me, so let those men who can't marry us worry.
