Post Date December, 03 2023
Outside the gold shop of a mall at the corner of Nanping Street, Zhuhai, a young woman wearing a wedding dress held up a sign of "Gold Lady", which said, "Hang gold for me, I will marry you". Not to mention whether this is an advertisement, it is inappropriate to say that this person is seeking marriage. She so frankly emphasizes material and money, but completely ignores factors such as feelings. Is she marrying someone or money?
Even if some people are attracted by her beautiful appearance and are willing to marry her home with gold, but they have no emotional basis and marry her because of money, which has buried hidden dangers in the marriage life from the beginning. Such a straightforward statement of material and money makes men suspicious of her and unable to trust her. If a woman is a little bit more attentive, she will guess whether she needs money or something. If she is a little more indifferent, she will wonder whether she knows a richer man. So, which marriages are prone to problems?
Money buys back marriage
Just like the money worship girl in the article who asked for marriage, she bought a wife back with money. Is this wife marrying him because of him or because of his guess? If you marry him because of his wealth, will his wife leave when he has nothing; If she met a man with more money than him, would she choose him and abandon herself? Marriage bought back with money is not reliable, and has buried hidden dangers and suspicion from the beginning.
Choose marriage for gratitude
It is difficult for a man to fall in love with the "benefactor". Maybe at first, he will be grateful for the kindness of the other party, but after a long time, he will feel tired. Facing a person who doesn't love all day, and feeling sorry for the kindness of the other party, this brings a heavy burden to the man's mind, and makes him tired. The marriage controlled by kindness is not reliable. Women who pay too much for men will also make men feel tired.
Choose to marry because of external attraction
There is no doubt that the good feeling of two people first comes from the attraction of their appearance. A beautiful woman or handsome man must be easier than those ordinary people in finding boyfriend and girlfriend. People also tend to have a favorable impression on good-looking people. However, physical attraction is not only enough. You don't need to buy a vase back. What you need is a wife. You need communication and spiritual resonance. If morality, values and living habits are different, it is easy to have problems in life. Couples who break up often say that it is caused by personality incompatibility, which is internal incompatibility. It is also a waste of money to match the golden boy and jade girl if their character is not suitable.
Marry for profit
Love has no transaction. In the castle of marriage, love is always the most fundamental foundation. A marriage without feelings and only relying on the combination of interests is like a two-story building without a foundation. It is good to find a wife who can help your career, but it cannot be the only standard. Some Phoenix men rely on their wives to rise to the sky and save 20 years of struggle. But is his life really as happy as outsiders see? When you get money and status from the other party, your status at home will be lowered. A man gains a profitable marriage, thus losing his pride and self-esteem.
