Post Date December, 02 2023
Love and marriage are completely different, and the statement that marriage is the tomb of love is not entirely unreasonable. When girls are considering whether to marry him, let's take a look at these hidden rules of love first!
1、 Unless he's blind, he'll always be a visual animal
Out of various motives, perhaps to take care of you, perhaps because of inferiority complex, afraid that your woman may be too beautiful to control, or perhaps he sincerely loves your pure and beautiful heart, and may claim that he doesn't value you externally, you will always be the most beautiful. nonsense! Unless a man is blind, he will always love beautiful women. Walking on the street, he will definitely look at long legged beautiful women instead of buying groceries. If you give up the pursuit of beauty, then men will also give up the pursuit of love. It's just so cruel, even saints are the same. Speaking of it, turning yourself upside down is not a loss for you, is it?
2、 No man doesn't want to get married, he just doesn't want to marry you
There is no man who does not want to get married, because for men, getting married and starting a career is a system to establish social identity. For men with social desire, there has never been a question of "whether to marry or not", only the question of "who to marry". So, if you are in the marriageable stage with a man and he refuses to speak up, don't doubt what you have done wrong. The problem lies with him. That man doesn't want to marry you, and he's just unwilling to admit it. As for the reason - first, I dare not take responsibility. He would say, dear, why do you care about that piece of paper when we're together? In fact, he cares most about that piece of paper because with it, he must bear the responsibility of his family, as well as the responsibilities of both families. He is unwilling. Secondly, he doesn't want to lose the entire forest. If a man marries you today and goes to work tomorrow, he will lose his stance of flirting with the new female colleague, and he is unwilling. Thirdly, most importantly, he doesn't love you enough. Not to mention how long you lived with him in the Year of One or Two, or how long you broke up with him, he was able to get married within six months. The previous excuses for refusing marriage that were even more hairy than his legs were all gone. So don't dwell on what's wrong with yourself anymore. For men who don't even have the sincerity to get married, let's learn to be smart and just play.
3、 Before marriage, everyone is equal
The Jianghu is dangerous, my good lady! You also said that he's good at everything, and you're all moved. Are other women blind or foolish? You may still be reserved, calculating the time and frequency ratio between answering the phone and agreeing to a date, but other women have already taken action! Are you planning to passively endure forever? You won't die if you take the initiative, but you should be proactive and beautiful, proactive and passive. You are only responsible for creating opportunities, and performance and confession should be left to him! As for the matter of getting married with a ball, you can tell from the entertainment news that there are often female stars who successfully marry a high-quality Xiaokai and soon have a precious son. Do you really think this is a coincidence? I accidentally got pregnant and got married, this is a must kill tactic! If you focus on your partner, getting married as a child is not a problem. Anyway, as long as you achieve your goals, the two of you will be happy and happy. As for the order, who cares?
4、 Generosity is not love, stinginess is
Oh, good girl, you fell into the trap of a man: he demands your generosity, he demands your trust, he gives you a tall hat of a good wife and mother. If you really wear it, you will become an idle wife and a cold mother, and there will be no prosecution for your grievances. What kind of freedom do men want? When he truly loves a woman, what is freedom? He will hold his freedom in both hands and offer it to you. Please give him the shackles of love. The word 'stinginess' must have been invented by a man because he wants to have fun, he wants to support others, and he doesn't want to carry a cross. Therefore, he says you are stingy, making you think you are really wrong. What is drinking tea and chatting with my ex girlfriend? Is there really any woman in the world who doesn't mind this matter? I don't believe it. Drinking tea, eating rice, chatting about past relationships, there are no waves or ripples in a man's heart? I don't believe it. The more a good woman hypnotizes herself, the more she trusts him, and the more serious the injury may eventually become. Actually, there's really no need to be so great. Stop pretending to be generous, face your own needs, stop wronging yourself, suppressing yourself, secretly hiding, feeling unhappy, and being stingy. What are you afraid of? Moreover, if he really loves you, he will first consider whether you are happy or not. The first thing he respects will be you, and he will not waste time with other girls blindly. He will always think of you.
5、 Giving a bad man a chance is like seeking his own death
A good man won't pry at the feet of others, so even if he loves you and watches you cry in the arms of a bad man, they are still very gentlemen and keep a distance from you. How can a good man have a chance to get you if you don't leave a bad man? Some things can be forgiven, such as smelly feet, adding too much salt to the dishes, and forgetting to buy you a gift. But there are some things that cannot be forgiven. Repeatedly deliberately cheating, disregarding your feelings, trampling on your self-esteem. Repeatedly giving bad men opportunities only amplifies their appetite. If a man shamelessly harms you, let him go. Then, leave the opportunity for the person you love. A woman will inevitably be foolish once in her lifetime, but after being foolish, she will be fine. If you learn to be smart, smart people will appreciate and love you.
6、 Old lovers are just a bag of instant noodles
He has made the best choice for him, hasn't he? Your meaning to him has become a package of instant noodles. If you are willing, if he gets hungry one day, soak you up, eat you, and solve the problem, you are disposable garbage, and he will definitely not linger. Stop fantasizing, not everyone is as noble as you in their attitude towards love. If you really can't let go, it's better to consider this as an opportunity to perfect yourself. Make yourself more perfect. You can write down what's not good about you, so he doesn't love you anymore, and then improve them. For example, if your legs are thick, ok, go to the gym, and practice pilates, half a year later, when you have sexy and perfect calves, you will forget your original intention of fitness, and by the way, his face will also be completely forgotten.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
