Post Date December, 03 2023
Some people enjoy living together and believe that living together can bring them closer to their partner. It is said that love is easy and difficult to get along with, and cohabitation allows lovers and men to better understand each other's personality, which plays a very good role in the coexistence of both parties after marriage. Therefore, cohabitation can also be called trial marriage. For those who enjoy it, cohabitation feels like paradise.
There are two sides to everything. While many people enjoy cohabitation, many also suffer from it. Pay attention to focusing on women. Many women have been cheated of their feelings and money in cohabitation, and more women have become pregnant due to cohabitation. Multiple miscarriages have made them a defective woman, unable to become a true woman in their lifetime, and unable to enjoy the joy of being a mother
While regretting the women who have suffered so much from cohabitation, we believe they have already seen the true face of men choosing to cohabit. They regard cohabitation as a raging beast, a hell. We can confidently say that the global phenomenon of cohabitation is the most vulnerable gender relationship. Therefore, when cohabiting with a boyfriend, women must be careful of the following two pitfalls.
Money
When in love, men all love to show off their wealth, even if they don't have money, they should puff up their faces and pretend to be fat. When borrowing money, they should also rush to pay the bill when you date, and buy expensive gifts for you to create romance.
However, after two people cohabit, as the initial costs skyrocket, men begin to be timid. The expenses necessary for living together are definitely not something that a young man who has just entered society can afford. One day, he will open your wallet and ask you to bear the crystal vase yourself. Even after getting married, men secretly hide their private money, even though they happily hand over their wages to their wives, and their hearts are extremely reluctant for their wives to take charge of everything, let alone the yellow haired boy who cohabits with you and is not married! He is not responsible for your daily expenses!
When a poor couple's financial ability cannot meet their daily expenses, they will think of settling accounts with you, such as adopting an internal AA system, or directly breaking up from cohabitation.
Privacy
When you don't live together, he receives a phone call from the opposite sex, and you express curiosity, which may be considered cute by him. When you go to his bachelor's dormitory, you won't be strongly criticized by him if you look through his drawer. However, when you live together, you monitor his phone number and whereabouts, and use your mobile phone to locate him at any time. You may be scolded as a chicken with a small belly by him. Over time, both sides will be tortured to the point of collapse by such paranoia.
Everyone has their own privacy, especially men. Due to work needs, they will have many heterosexual friends or confidants, but they will grasp their own yardstick and will not allow these heterosexual relationships to develop into ambiguous relationships between men and women.
Cohabitation is a very intimate behavior, but both parties still need to respect each other's privacy rights. There is always a corner in the human heart that is not willing to open to anyone. Women also have their own privacy and may hide their past and present, so why bother treating men so harshly!
