Post Date December, 03 2023
According to a global survey report in the UK, the average number of sexual behaviors among adults worldwide is 97 times a year, compared to 124 times in the United States and 63 times in China. The main reason for this phenomenon may be related to male sexual dysfunction. In fact, male sexual dysfunction is not a single disease, and erectile dysfunction is one of its main diseases.
Stage 1: One year before marriage and two years after marriage
Before and after marriage, both men and women are at a stage of relatively large emotional fluctuations. Nowadays, most young couples are only children, who grew up spoiled by their parents. Personality is more self centered, and most people don't think about each other. They often argue over trivial matters.
There is a young man and woman who have been in love for several years and are preparing to get married. At this time, they are in a period of great career development, and they are facing tremendous pressure at work. Frequent friction between the two parties causes enormous psychological pressure on the man, which over time affects the physical health of the man and prevents him from erecting. The woman couldn't understand and scolded the man for fooling around outside. The two eventually divorced two years after their marriage.
The reason is that neither side understands accommodation. Two people are completely independent individuals, and friction is inevitable. As a male, you should be generous and dare to say "I'm sorry" first when there is a conflict, to avoid exacerbating the conflict, which has a positive effect on your own health and the feelings of both parties. The woman should also understand the pressure on the other party and be gentle and considerate.
Stage 2: Married for over ten years
"Sleeping in a bed for 20 years can inevitably lead to some 'aesthetic fatigue'." This is a classic sentence from the movie 'Mobile Phone', which has aroused resonance among many people. There is a couple who have been married for 12 years and their children are in the third grade of primary school. In the first two years of marriage, the most desired thing for a husband every day is to be able to leave work early and go home with his wife. Later, he opened his own company and began a life of early departure and late return. "The woman, however, appears aged and inactive due to her lack of attention to maintenance after giving birth to a child, her figure being out of shape, and her lack of attention to facial skin care.". In the face of his wife, who is no longer in style, he feels that life is boring and he cannot bring up the "sexual" interest. Having sex more than twice a week has become less than once in half a month.
If there is any disharmony in the sexual life of a husband and wife, and their skin contact with each other becomes less and less, it is necessary to carefully create an atmosphere of love and communicate their feelings of love in a timely manner. Zhang Bin, an associate professor of infertility and sexual medicine at the Third Affiliated Hospital of Sun Yat-sen University, pointed out that couples who work in the same unit are particularly prone to aesthetic fatigue due to the fact that both the unit and the family are facing each other day and night. To overcome the boredom between couples, innovative adjustment methods must be used to enrich their sexual life and regain the feeling of love. Even if work gets tiring, men should try to help with household chores, shopping together, outings, playing ball games, watching movies, and reliving the feeling of dating. Women also need to maintain a fresh image. Frequent changes in clothing styles and attempts to use the husband's favorite perfume will bring new feelings to each other.
Stage 3: Menopause
Can elderly people also have sex? The answer is yes. However, when a man enters menopause, his temper becomes irritable and anxious, and he often hides at home. Some men may experience decreased libido during menopause, and some may experience a decrease in erectile ability, indicating that they have no sexual ability.
After more than 30 years of ups and downs, a couple originally had a very good relationship. I don't know when they started, but their sexual life became uncoordinated. The wife found out that their husband was just playing it by ear every time, so she suspected that the man was having an improper relationship outside. She often checked his underwear and listened to the phone... In order to recover the relationship that was on the verge of breaking down, they decided to go to the hospital together for an examination. During the examination, both men and women were found to have menopausal syndrome. After treatment and strengthened communication with each other, the relationship was restored to its original state.
Zhang Bin pointed out that both sides should learn to understand each other, respect each other, and learn more about the characteristics of each other's natural physiological changes. Respecting the interests of a loved one is the glue that enhances a couple's relationship. In the process of respecting each other and adapting to each other's interests, one gains an increase in common language and a deepening of the couple's feelings. If there is a problem, you should go to the hospital to see if it is an organic problem. If it's a psychological problem, couples can use the methods mentioned above to create a sense of freshness and relive the romantic warmth of the past.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
